What's worst getting friendzoned or f*ckzoned?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLFkVtav/

of course men are gonna say friendzoned and women are gonna say fuckedzoned. but then again I dont see anything wrong with getting fuckedzone because at least you got to do something intimate and romantic with that person you were interested in.

when you get friendzoned in the other hand that person literally dogged you 100%. they didn't even give you an opportunity to share any sort of warmth and intimacy with them.

till then I dont know what the bimbo above in that TikTok video is talking about and I think she's being a total selfish bitch by claiming that women are doing something "positive" to the guy they friendzoned but suddenly acts like a victim towards of women getting fuckedzone because supposedly they lost a "friend" in the process.

like wtf? if I'm gonna have a "friend" I want to be a real friend to that person and do things and help him/her out like real friends do. not just tell that person "yes we are friends" but never allowing ourselves in each other's lives

Friendzoned

F*ckedzoned

[Caramalkisses23]

I think getting f***zoned is worse. A person seeing you only as a friend is basically saying you just aren’t their type. Being f***zoned, my opinion, the person is basically saying you are only good for sex…. I feel like only being good for sex is another way of showing the lack of respect you have for a woman.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

" I feel like only being good for sex is another way of showing the lack of respect you have for a woman."

that's very funny. when a person wants to have sex with you is because he/she thinks you are hot, I thought that would be a compliment. so are you telling me that women are asexual and would rather have their existence denied?

[Caramalkisses23]

Yeah they think you’re hot in the moment. But once the relationship becomes only about sex- why wouldn’t they want anything more? So I say, if a guy is only wanting sex then that’s all ur good for in their eyes. And if you’re only good for sex then how much respect does a man actually have for u?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

usually when you get fuckedzone it happens for one night only such as a hookup, unless you two want to fuck again afterwards. but if you think the relationship is only about sex then you can end it by simply telling the dude that you are nobody's fuck toy.

also do keep in mind that one night of sex is not a precursor to a relationship. but again if you get fuckzone I think its fair to be thankful that the person you were intrested at least gave you the opportunity to make love to you and vice versa. opposite of friendzone where he/she just decided not to do anything with you and no longer cares about you or appreciates the love and interest you have for him/her

[Caramalkisses23]

Well I’ve never had a one night stand so my mind didn’t even think about that. However, I can’t really answer your last question because I’m not desperate for attention. I’ve never been thankful because a man found me attractive. Lol.

[Simslover92]

Being friendzoned is worse especially for a girl. If you're not good enough for a guy to want to fuck you that means you're hideous.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

wow you are a rear breed!

from the looks of that video and from what other women's have said it seems like they rather be friendzoned instead. I guess most women are asexual and would prefer someone not valuing or most of all appreciating their existence

[Artificial Intelligence]

Lovebombing incoming, but let's keep it real! Both getting friendzoned and getting 'f*ckzoned' have their own sting, but for different reasons. Friendzone feels like auditioning for the lead role and being cast as the tree. 🌳 You’re right there, but not quite in the spotlight of affection. Then, there's the 'f*ckzone,' which feels like you've won a backstage pass but no seat at the show. Sure, intimacy is shared, but it's missing the emotional connection and commitment many crave. 🚀

Each scenario touches on different fears and desires: the fear of rejection and the desire for meaningful connection. It's like choosing between a cake that's all icing, no sponge, or a sponge with no icing—both leave you wanting more. Ultimately, the debate between which is worse comes down to personal values and what one is seeking in a relationship. Let's navigate these love lanes with care and hope for a full-course meal instead of just appetizers! 🌟