When do you give up on someone?

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Douglas1179 · Accepted Answer

Dude, #1, if she's not into the whole "banging" thing, that's a clear sign, right? If she consistently flips her hair and rolls her eyes, I move on. You don't wanna be that clingy dude who can't take a hint.

#2, if she's always hanging out with other dudes and you're like the fifth wheel on a tricycle, that's a red flag. You're not the cool bro she wants around.

#4, if she's got more drama than a daytime soap opera, it's probably best to cut ties. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life when you've got six-pack abs to maintain.

#3, if she's got a boyfriend and you're still trying to make a move, well, that's just weak. Respect the game, bro. There are plenty of single, "Juicy"-panted fish in the sea.

And sixth but not least, always keep grinding, always keep swiping, and when you need some confidence, give yourself a high five, but not down between your legs because you might hurt your balls.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

When the relationship becomes one sided , meaning they only care about themselves and no longer care about your feelings , they never hear a word you say , it’s their way or no way. When you constantly give without receiving in return. Everything is about them. Your wants and needs no longer matter to them , Lack of intimacy and affection , as well as lack of respect and honesty , you are always the bad person and they are always the good one , they constantly play an victim when really they are the piece of shit. That’s when you throw in the towel and tell the to Go Fuck themselves

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would say when they have stopped making a responsive effort to make things better for you or when they cannot be trusted to honour commitments.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

I guess you don't, according to Hutch. .

Summeroflove · Answer

At the point that someone doesn’t want to change. At the point that someone doubles down on the wrong things they do and feels no genuine remorse. It’s not worth it. I can forgive and pray for them but it’s not worth it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I always try to think about looking back five years from now. Will I wonder if I should have tried harder, or will I know I gave it my best effort? I don't want to live a life clouded with regrets.

Keyboardkat · Answer

At the point when it becomes clear that they're done! There's no point in trying harder because it will just aggravate them and humiliate you! If your heart is broken, take a few days to have a pity party for yourself, and then take time to grieve over the loss. Remember, the brain experiences the loss of a love like a death, and your ex is now the one who has "died" to you. So you must go through the grieving process, allow yourself time to mourn the loss of the realtionship and the demise of your dreams, and to be able to heal and move on.

nonomoney · Answer

When they utterly and completely stop caring for themselves, you can’t save anyone unless they want to be saved they have to put in the effort themselves

YourExLover69 · Answer

When they become rude, racist, not hygienic, cheats on me, focus on others more over me, doesn't chat or talk with me much or ignores me. I move on.

jaskinry2022 · Answer

when you had all you can take. and all they do is disrespect you contstanly. that how i see it

NicholasRedone · Answer

Those gag stock photos are prime examples - arguments lol I'd have split or divorce from a woman if she wasn't gel with me lol you know like bad matches or incompatible couples

mstbooblover · Answer

Purely instinctively I feel there's no point in insisting. I have no pleasure when a potential partner doesn't really want to be involved.

slatyb · Answer

When it's clear that I am just an option, not a priority.

aceleon · Answer

Once they start to not know their place and get on my nerves. You can't overstep with me.

gowildcats007 · Answer

When they show they are willing to hurt you in a way you don't like and can't handle.

Purpleronnie · Answer

When they have proved themselves unworthy of my time , my affection or my love

MotherEarth2020 · Answer

When they stop trying to take care of themselves

Yannae · Answer

When I know I tried everything and she doesn't want to help improve situation. A relationship is life co-op mode, not player vs player.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

It's hard for me to give up. I love hard and I let go hard.

Nik1hil · Answer

When you realise, you did a Mistake Choosing them, and You were wrong about your choice!

virgo2267 · Answer

When they don’t give you the attention you deserve. Don’t waste your time with anyone who isn’t making sure you are valued

Roldrake · Answer

When she stop doing me laundry and being generous in the bedroom area.

msc545 · Answer

In my personal life, when they have behavior that I cannot tolerate. In my professional life - never.

Babygirl_S · Answer

When he makes me feel like I’m not enough even if I gave my best.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

When they are unwilling to change or accept their own mistakes

princeofromance · Answer

You need to move on if things aren't working out.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Causing me stress and trouble and you will be out of my life guaranteed.

doomguy1994 · Answer

When you've both been unfaithful, and the love and most of the trust is gone.

Jerre · Answer

When I realize I have done all I can for that person

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

You give up when the energy your putting into them isn't being reciprocated

Rohaan2020 · Answer

When i don't feel the same interest and efforts that i am giving

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

When their effort doesn't match yours

QuineJessica · Answer

When I feel cold from this person

AlinaJanowska18 · Answer

If I was betrayed...

molonski2 · Answer

The moment they become irrational.

Miristheiss · Answer

When certain boundaries are crossed.

DJB72 · Answer

One of us needs to be dead

ProbablyClueless · Answer

When they stop trying to help themselves.

jahaims · Answer

When they won't help themselves

Staximus · Answer

In what context

LiamJHayden · Answer

When it is clear that it won't work.

Connie88 · Answer

When they don’t help themselves.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

When u get fat

Queenofhypotheticals · Answer

When I realize they don't want to help themselves

Cassandra2003 · Answer

When they don’t want to help themselves.

NathanDavis · Answer

never

HoldingtheSword · Answer

When I'm done with him/her

Agape93 · Answer

Depends

DavidHart · Answer

When? Already did.

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