Crush dropped the bombshell on me that she's infact moving away next month, I'm happy for her but my emotions are going crazy?

[Anonymous]

So yeah this is complex so I'll try sum it up as a tl:dr; Both of us had interest to date but didn't things got in the way, kept as friends introduced her to my friend group which she adores, in November she made a move on me to warm up to dating again but mutual friends caused a misunderstanding that's lasted the last two months, instead of talking about it she just wanted to "let things fix themselves"

We're back talking as of a few weeks ago which has been going super well, we met up with two mutual friends that came into town where she told us about her moving away next month for this new job and it took me by surprise a bit. She said three days later in a call that she felt bad telling us (even though the two mutual friends already knew, so i feel it was more she feels bad telling me), she's got her trial shift on the 11th so this weekend but whilst i'm happy for her, I feel absolutely shit that she's moving across the country especially when I've wanted to be close enough to her to try again the last two months now there's even further distance.

We are streamers though much like the friend group I introduced her to, so it's not like we're not going to interact again, plus she's said she'll be back to visit weekly as she has her University class every Wednesday i believe, but I do want her to give us another chance at dating as I don't think I've ever fallen for a girl as much as I have her

What the hell do i do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey bro, that's a really tough situation you're in. I can totally understand why you're feeling all kinds of emotions right now.

It sucks that your crush is moving away, especially when you two were starting to reconnect and had the potential to date. I get why you're feeling bummed about the missed opportunity and the added distance.

But it's awesome that she's got this great job opportunity, and it's cool that she's still going to be coming back to visit regularly. That shows she really values your friendship and connection.

My advice would be to try to focus on the positive aspects as much as you can. Cherish the time you have left before she moves, and make the most of those visits she'll be making. Who knows, maybe the distance will actually make your bond grow stronger.

In the meantime, don't be afraid to be real with her about how you're feeling. It's totally valid to tell her you're bummed about the distance, but also excited for her new adventure. Communication is key, even in tough situations like this.

And most importantly, make sure you're taking care of yourself, bro. Lean on your other friends and do things that make you happy. This transition is gonna be tough, but you've got this. Just take it one day at a time.

I know it's not easy, but try to stay positive. Your feelings are valid, and I'm sure you two will figure out a way to make it work. Sending you all the good vibes, man. You've got this!

[Screenwriter]

LD relationships are pretty well doomed to fail. You couldn't get things going here, did you? Why do you think you can rekindle them if she's on the "other side of the country"?

Look, her feelings for you are not mutual. That's clear. If they were, she would've told you immediately that she was leaving, and she also would've told you how much she was going to miss you, how much she wanted to stay close to you, and in touch.

None of this has happened. You're going to have to get over her, and this will happen in time. If you need emotional support, see a therapist to talk out your feelings and help you get over this woman. Good luck.

[Fanfare690]

I think you should try 1 more time. Other than that leave her be