My boyfriend thinks sex solves all problems, how can I address this?

[Anonymous]

Basically the title summarizes my problem. We don’t have the healthiest relationship we get toxic often. However, we recently chilled out and became more healthy, more understanding. Our feelings were extra and all over the place in every argument, however we are now more balanced we listen to each other, we try to not get emotional. Its some type of progress, however i’ve noticed when he makes a mistake and i try to discuss the problem. He immediately changes the topic and tries to have sex or hate fucks basically. I really love him and its a special relationship we have like i just go with the flow even if i said no he says things like “you don’t have a choice i will make you” by the way all of our interactions are a 100% consensual he doesn’t force or anything he just says that because when i get mad i tell him “no” but he knows deep inside that I don’t mind and love him. However, i just hate how he never addresses our problems and jumps straight to “makeup sex” 😭😭 any tips?

[NathanDavis]

sounds like you have one problem

your boyfriend

he loves to hate fuck...

[Valdemort]

Lmfao, your partner is creating issues, to have a "reason" to have sex, it seems. What even do people get themselves into.
It's just his way to not have to take accountability.

[Yannae]

You say no and force him to have the talk. If he won't have it, he's not it.

[hello4433]

You should have strong boundaries. And don't have sex if you are not in mood for it. I think you need good communication in your relationship

[Anonymous]

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https://www.youtube.com/embed/R4c5I9psEWs

[slatyb]

Have you considered counseling?

[ChicoFromThe305]

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