My boyfriend of 2 years ignores me when he has family or personal problems and does not share it? Does it mean he treats me like an option?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

This is very difficult situation. Especially when you are in long distance relationship. When you are at distance, you feel all alone during your difficult times, and we hesitate sharing our problems with that person. Because even if we share our difficulties, they may not do anything nor even take our head in lap and comfort us, and it feels like we are showing our weakness but of no use. We do feel very lonely.

It's really feels too tough to go through all this.

I know this feeling.

And trust me, if he would start sharing his all difficulties with you, then you will feel more worse, because his difficulties his problems will keep you also disturbed mentally, and you would feel helpless as being in distance you could do almost nothing, can't even comfort him, can't even wipe off his tears. Only you have to see him getting shattered before your eyes with your knowledge and you could do nothing.

[Nikki1989]

His behavior could indicate that he's not prioritizing your relationship or that he's struggling to communicate effectively. It could go either way. Most men are bad communicators.

[Deimy]

He shows other signs of not prioritizing me like we are in distance but he never plans a trip to see me. It's all my initiative he just says he misses me

[princeofromance]

Yes, and he is also sharing that information with another woman. You should leave him for a man who truly cares and will share these things with you.

[Deimy]

You think he is secretely cheating on me? We are long distance couple

[princeofromance]

Yes, I do think your partner is seeing someone behind your back.

[MissTrix]

Yes imagine being married and him just never sharing or if oring your stuff cause he wants you to do it alone!

[Anonymous]

Men generally don't look to their woman to support them in that way.

[eagle1951]

sure sounds like it to me