My boyfriend calls me names like dumb bitch whenever we get into an argument. Should I leave him?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Are you a dumb b**** I don't think so if you allow him to do this each and every time that you guys have a arguments... . And he thinks it's okay to do so and it will just get worse if you put your foot down and show him who you are by saying hello don't call me names if you're pissed off at me don't call me names and walk away and let them think about it for a day or two let him prove to you that he's wrong but if you allow it you show a weakness and you show that it's okay for him to do that..

So yes if you don't like that which I wouldn't then you should leave or you should train him because he needs to see your strengths and you're smart you're wisdom and who you truly are did you do that by saying enough is enough don't call me names again

And walk away say when your man when you grow up and you don't have to use words to these little me because you're so angry at whatever reason when you can do it like a man and calmly you can call me then but until then don't even call me because I'm not putting up with this crap you call me names or anybody calling me names you have to show him that you. Are bold and you are just as tough as he is by telling him no more I mean if he does not respect that then he's stupid sorry I'm laughing now because I called him a name..

But if you allow it it's just going to get worse and it could lead to something more somewhere down the road if he's that out of control that he has to call you a name to make himself feel better because that's all but it's all about he's trying to manipulate you into thinking that you're nothing you're no good and you're weak and I don't think you are bad at all that's the reason why you ask this question so it's your choice nobody can tell you what to do but don't ever allow any guy to do that to you ever because we both know that you're not that person and we both know that it's wrong and we both know that if you keep allowing it to happen it's going to get worse because you're telling him oh it's okay it's okay I'll be right here waiting for you and you can't do that like I said it's your choice.

And this choice that you're going to be making right now also determines you who you truly are it shows your strength and your weaknesses and maturity

But if a guy says he loves you and then calls you names that's not love that's b******* and manipulation and somewhere down the road he just wants to control you

zagor · Accepted Answer

If it happens often, you may want to find someone who is more respectful.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Why are you asking? Don’t enjoy when he calls you this sort of thing? Do you feel respected? Don’t tolerate it. Move on.

HelpfulWoman · Accepted Answer

well yeah. why be with someone who cannot have a constructive conversation and instead resorts to insults in arguments?

laraWM · Answer

Yes I think you should. It looks like he doesn't respect you

IslaTheWitch · Answer

start by telling him that you don't want to listen to it anymore because it's very disrespectful... communication is the key... you can always leave... but first try to make it work...

Sevenpointfive · Answer

no sumbitch. you do what he needs. you don't get to leave. you don't even get to speak unless he allows you. now suck it and i'll tell him you'll be nice again.

Flower7 · Answer

Yes because he doesn’t respect you. His true colors are showing.

Anonymous · Answer

The first time would've been the end of that for me.

Anonymous · Answer

That depends. Are you a dumb b****? Because if so, then leaving him only temporarily fixes your problem.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Tell him to stop disrespecting you and if he persists, DUMP DA DUDE !!!

Anonymous · Answer

No. I always call my girlfriend bitch and not only when we have arguments. It's masculine, nothing problematix

Anonymous · Answer

call him names too and see how he reacts, real insulting ones.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Well - are you? Don't be hasty...

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Insults are pretty immature even when in arguments

Ariesman81 · Answer

Were you being a dumb bitch?

jahaims · Answer

Lmfao. Should I let a guy abuse me? Dumb af

Iron_Man · Answer

Don’t put up with that

Staximus · Answer

Yes you should leave him

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I don’t the respects you.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Probably.

In_Trance · Answer

Yeah

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