Why am I not getting any likes?

[Anonymous]

I made a profile on tinder 2 weeks ago and so far I only have 1 like. Is tinder bad?

[slatyb]

Try other sites. I had good luck on Match but that was years ago and I was mid-thirties. You are young, lots of single women your age. What are you doing to meet them?

[Asker]

I guess I probably should. What do you mean what am I doing to meet them?

[slatyb]

Where are you going? What activities are you engaging in? You aren't going to meet them sitting in your room.

[Asker]

I mean technically I'm not doing anything to meet them because I haven't matched with anyone yet.
I work, go bowling once a week, watch some shows, help my family with whatever projects they have, nothing else on a regular basis that is. Usually stuff just comes up and I'm like "oh, that'd be fun".

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Women hate boring guys they like adventure. Thats why they like bad boys because theyre a thrill and it exhilarates them

[Asker]

And in my opinion, that's what puts them in certain situations..
Not boring, like I said, I go by ear.

[Asker]

Also, it's a little harder to find the time to do more stuff when you work 12 hour shifts...

[slatyb]

Have you considered finding activities where you might meet young women?

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

No you're just not a hot guy women want to sex for fun and if they dont want to sex that also means they dont want a relationship. Sex can lead to dating so if you're not someone she's willing to risk pregnancy with u ain't worth shiet

[Asker]

I'm a nerd with a dad bod. I don't know if that matters, but here we are😂😂

[slatyb]

You are too young to have a dad bod. You might want to work on that.

[red-lipstick-girl]

It's a place for shitty people, never a place for serious relationships, the popular ones come to the fore, the rest are not considered.

[Asker]

I'm not considering myself a shitty person, BUT I am on it for a shitty reason..

[Nikki1989]

Stick to the real world.

You could go out somewhere today and find 10 people to like you.

[Asker]

I probably should. I need to go to conventions and stuff that I'm into.

[Anonymous]

You have a like in 2 weeks

I got 5 in a year

[Asker]

I'm sorry. I'll probably stop soon anyways lol

[Opinion Owner]

I quit the whole game after that year, far easier and happier

[Asker]

That's fair. Honestly I really just need to focus on myself.

[Anonymous]

Tinder is just for a certain kind of fun. Try finding someone in real life.

[Asker]

What if I want that certain kind of fun?

[Opinion Owner]

Then by all means enjoy yourself.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I know men have a harder time on tinder then women

[Asker]

That's for sure lol. Doesn't help that I'm not INSANELY hot.

[Asker]

Also, I saw your username.. How long have you played the trumpet for?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I haven't for a few years but I did 8 years

[Asker]

Same hear, I still have it, but haven't played it since I graduated in 21. Well regularly that is. I'll pick it up every now and then and play one of the old songs that I still have from band. 7 years for me lol.

[Asker]

Nice to see another trumpet player for once lol.