Would you go on a blind date with someone your friend warned you, was not that cute?

[Anonymous]

[Screenwriter]

Does your friend and you have the exact same tastes in men? Unless you do, I'd take such advice with a grain of salt. "Not that cute" is not terribly specific. Ears like Will Smith, tells you something. Looks like Mel Gibson, is specific and gives you informations to contemplate and make a decision on.

[Screenwriter]

Oh, and I was talking to a good friend about Walton Goggins, late of the Righteous Gemstones and The Lotus and how I thought he was gorgeous. She argued with me about Justified and how he was sexier 10 years ago.

My thoughts are, I think he's hella sexy as he looks right now! Why do I need to see him 10 years younger, which is an impossible in-person experience? Also just saw him in Architectural Digest with his director wife, smiling like a cheshire cat!

I might ook up Justified because it might be a good performance and to see what my friend was yammering about, but I'm no longer young, so my standards of beauty attached to youth differ.

There are all kinds of beauty and sexy and it doesn't have to be young to exist. So everyone's tastes differ.

[Nikki1989]

Why would his or her looks bother me?

There are far more important things to be concerned about.

[Bricealan]

That certainly would not deter me... who am I to make such a judgement about someone I never met or saw and took someone else's opinion as to how attractive they were?

[HighValue]

Sure since the women they find most attractive are often just average to me and the ones I like the most are often not thought of as very attractive.

[SteveSmith1985]

I would if there was some other compelling reason my friend thought I would be a great fit, with this not-cute person they want to set me up with. Because there'd better be some other reason. Otherwise, that friend is terrible at setting you up.

I would also ask this of the friend. I'd say "why are you trying to set me up with somebody you think it "not-cute"?

And expect some sort of decent answer.

It's not that there aren't perfectly fine answers to this. If my friend thought we would hit-it-off especially well, then that's good enough of a reason. But there has to be something. If all you know about somebody is that they are not cute, that's hardly a promising start for a blind date.

I would ask for more information from my friend. That's what I would do.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, because looks aren't the most important thing to me

[zagor]

Your friend may have different standards compared to you.

I was talking with another American while traveling in Europe and I mentioned that I thought the UK had the least attractive F population in Western Europe and the food there was awful. He responded that he thought the women there were beautiful and the food was great.

[NoDecision]

If he would go with me because I'm not "that cute" either. 😝

[FreyaRed]

Yes, if he is funny I can be cute for us both. lol

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Do people still go on blind dates? Is that a thing anymore?

Why wouldn't you be able to just look at their social media stuff online?

[NicholasRedone]

Sounds scary 😰 lots of sick folks out there and users and players

[NathanDavis]

"cute" is a very subjective term anyway

[DrPepper12]

No because I would never friend like that

[Smile456]

Cute is not my priority

[chocolatetwopointo]

no attraction is important

[PaleDale]

Cute is not the only factor, I hope.

[redeolf28396]

Of course