Boyfriend thinks I’m not read to live together?

[WinCx3d]

I mentioned to my boyfriend about living together and he said “you are not ready for all that yet”

How does he know what I’m ready for?

[SteveSmith1985]

ummm what the fuck? That's a weird weird thing for him to say.

I agree with your take here. How does he know whether your ready or not (it makes him sound like he thinks he's your dad or something)

The usual way to phrase that would be "I don't think I'm ready to live together"

Or even "I don't think we're ready to move in together"

This is only one single tiny piece of information. It could mean nothing. But... this doesn't indicate anything good about him; and how he thinks.

This bothers me. I think you're totally right to be bothered by this too.

[Sevenpointfive]

is this the boyfriend that's stalking you, because you know he does know if you are ready or not. he's been watching you. you must be doing something unready-worthy of not being ready worthy.

[Booboolove69]

Because he’s not ready !
I think He said that because he’s not sure if you’re “ the one” …
So, you referred to him as “ your boyfriend “ … that means you’re going further with him in the relationship… just be patient and the most important thing to remember is ALWAYS be true to yourself !
Don’t forget who YOU are and what YOU like … meaning, us women, when we fall head over heels for a guy, tend to get caught up in what the guy likes and wants to please him but forget about ourselves and self care first.

[PeachyPie93]

It could be he knows things about you and doesn't want to live with you because of that.. Are you messy? Do you leave things until last minute? There are things guys pay attention to and the assume they know best.

[WinCx3d]

He said i don’t trust him?

[Booboolove69]

Why doesn’t he trust you? That’s what he’s saying …

[Booboolove69]

Do you trust him?

[WinCx3d]

I do but he says i don’t trust him

[Booboolove69]

Why doesn’t he think u trust him? Have u ever accused him of cheating?

[WinCx3d]

Yes i have

[Anonymous]

Because you can't function without coming here multiple times a week to ask about every text you've ever gotten so you definitely can't handle that. You'll be asking us 9 times a week why he put a spoon in the sink. Please for the love of god don't move in with him or you'll never stop spamming us with questions.

[itsannalee]

Ask him.

You are the one who understands and knows him, you should know him better than anyone in this platform.

[Med_guy1978]

I'd say he probably doesn't want anything serious with you so he doesn't want to commit. hard to say without having more information.

[LiamJHayden]

In all likelihood he is not ready and is projecting.

[MrCharlie13]

He doesn't. Maybe he was joking, maybe he was deflecting

[JesseP1nk]

No no no. If he says You are not ready then he mean He himself is not ready.

[fish5505_87]

I don't think he's ready for all that!