I cheated on him with his cousin?

[Anonymous]

I've been upset for a while because I realized my boyfriend wasn’t thinking about a future with me, and I had started to grow emotionally distant. Then one day, I met up with his cousin, and something happened between us. His cousin has been my friend for a few years and is actually the one who introduced me to my boyfriend. It all happened spontaneously, but we both admitted we’d had feelings for each other for some time. Of course, we felt regret afterward and decided not to talk much anymore. Even though I try to comfort myself by thinking my boyfriend wasn’t serious about me, I still feel uneasy. I even feel bad just looking at him. Telling him might hurt him even more. I don’t know if it’s better for him to know or not. What should I do?

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[ohsheeT]

Well this is only you can make The decision to either tell him or none of us can tell you what to do none of us can tell you what to do

If you tell him it's over and then Them and his cousins will hate eachso. Christmas and Thanksgiving and Easter dinners are gonna be messed up

So you have to ask yourself, how serious are you?
About him
Here the thing About that question you have to be honest. You can't be honest, so now what.. You did what you did because you didn't think your boyfriend was serious. And now that you did it,, your thinking what TA DA. Magic he's going to be serious now

Here's the thing when you stay together if you stay together. It's gonna find out sooner or later You're never gonna be able to look him in the eye again. And then what's gonna happen when you have sex with him? How's that gonna be

You blew it. Bottom line. It's one thing being honest with him.. but right now thus us about you. When we fall down we get back up as fast as we can if there pain you have to take the pain. But you have to make a choice WHO DO YOU WANT T O BE. WHO ARE YOU CAN YOU BE HONEST. OUR YOU TRUST WORTHY

You did something wrong It's cousin's a piece of something sheet But this isn't about your boyfriend. No more. This is about you and who you want to be, you might as well tell your boyfriend, be honest if he stays with you. You got lucky if you kick you down the road. Do not start seeing his cousin. That's the last thing in the world. You want to do this isn't about your boyfriend? This is about you and who you want to be in life.

[Cormac995]

You need to tell him the truth and accept whatever happens. Cheating on someone is the 4th worst thing you can do to a person and you have no excuse and worse you did it with his cousin you selfish bitch! Do you having any fucking idea what this is going to do to the family? If you weren't happy you should have told him and left if he wouldn't but you didn't you snuck around and fucked his cousin like a selfish world class slut! Tell him the truth if you want to walk away with a shred of dignity and beg him to forgive you. It's the only thing you can do to not be a TOTAL cunt for life.

[Asker]

Chill bro

[Cormac995]

Not really I'm nice to people until they give me a reason not too. You're a cheating bitch so I have a reason not to so in short go fuck yourself whore and do the right thing if you want to walk away with a shred of dignity.

[Asker]

Who did hurt you

[Cormac995]

Whores like you

[WellBye]

Cheaters' stories are always the same: "I was upset, I was hurt, then oops, something happened." Blah blah. If you're not happy in your relationship, just end it. I don't understand why you go to someone else's bed every time you're hurt.

[PeachyPie93]

Dump him since you are a cheat.. if you are gonna date his cousin its best you don't tell him because it probably will ruin their relationship.

[SteveSmith1985]

Yes. Tell him. What you did was wrong. It makes sense that you feel bad every time you look at him. You should.

You've wronged him. But keeping it from him is a thousand times worse.

If you're sorry. Then you need to acknowledge the wrong... to the guy you cheated on. Otherwise, your relationship is a lie.

[Shiprex]

Better you leave him now since he's probably someone who values loyalty and thus deserves better treatment than you are prepared to give him.

[Asker]

Without admitting?

[WhiteThought]

It's always better to know, for him and for you. But also, you should leave him if you are so unhappy.

[LiamS95]

Break up with him it seems he doesn't want a long term relationship with you anyway.

[hello4433]

Your partner deserves better. Be honest with him and leave him

[Anonymous]

Jeez so ya’ll both aren’t crap

[jahaims]

Trash

[Cormac995]

@jahaims A world class cunt!
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[zombiewoof]

Let it go

[Asker]

Contunie relationship just like that?

[zombiewoof]

Do you want to continue