How can I live with a guy and have a baby & meet family get comittment? im hallow & ready for comitment?

[Sugar100]

I’m going to be 28 and I been feeling empty. I just work and eat and go to sleep. I come home to my mom instead of a man which is ridiculous. I did date one guy July & we would sleep together in his bed like cuddle like a normal boyfriend husband but he would refuse call me his girlfriend so I ended things after one month dating before he would get chance have sex with me and no label.

im dull & want come home to a boyfriend start moving into our apt together , share life together , trips together , dates, attend functions together , start life together like a normal relationship. I never had that.

I’m starting be more strict and tell guys over n over I don’t do hookup no friends with benefits if u don’t ask me to be your girlfriend after 3 dates and say we r just a friend or friends with benefits then it’s over. No sex til we r in comitted relationship. I make it clear now they can’t use me. If they even think about making me a friends with benefits in your head then block me now nice try.

[ohsheeT]

You need to relax and be patient. And let it happen you don't want to rush it


If you let it just happen thevyou know its real. If you rush it. Get pregnant. And a month down the road you realize. Your not made for each other. So now your pregnant living in your car again

[DannyUk2017]

I never understand i never will..."if you don't ask me to be your girlfriend" in Europe doesn't exist such a thing... i guess you know you're my girlfriend once i spend money with you, dedicate my time with you, live with you, feeling like a family together, No? Why always has to to be... said, painted, written? No wonder feelings are fading away... Fast!

[Rides_Big_Guys]

Guys don’t know how to be husbands or fathers. You don’t wanna be with a guy!
Get your own little place and a dog 🐶

[StephanieChick111]

Stay strong girl. You'll find somei. Although, maybe don't lay down all the rules at once. Keep him on his toes.

[StephanieChick111]

Thank for the mho. I should add that you need to get out there and look available if you want guys to approach you. Don't be afraid to approach the guys you like too. Good luck.

[Avicenna]

You need to meet commitment-minded guys

[Sugar100]

On dating app the guy I dated he wrote in bio he wants comitted relationship, he was first guy to meet me 2-4x a wk, weekly, text daily all day, follow me everywhere but he deny call me his girlfriend after one month

[Avicenna]

Then it was time for things to end with him. You will meet plenty of other guys.

[Miristheiss]

I don't know. You are 28.

28.

You should be married and have about 3 kids now.

Well, if you just didn't give sex to guys and made a guy marry you before giving it up and if you prioritized this at 18-20 you would probably already have the commitment.

Since you probably started giving it away at 16 or so and went to college and made career your priority while you are at your most attractive, while in your prime but you waited until 28. You are on the decline now. Starting to show age, fewer eggs left, you are already ran through sexually.

Trying to find some moron to legally pledge all of his assets and earnings to you for your post prime, aging years.

Good luck. Plenty of simps out there with no standards who'll go after anything.

[Sugar100]

When I was younger I wasn’t atractive as I am now. When I was 18-23 I looked too young not my age. Now at 27 people say I look like I’m 20-21. Everyone gets shocked I’m 27.

When I was younger I had bad luck and no guy showed interest in me. It was only til 26-27 I started getting attention from guys.

I never had sex at 16. I had sex at 18-24 with a guy that used me. He date me many years act like a boyfriend but refuse meet fmaily and he say he’s single so I was a friends with benefits and I thought he was my boyfriend

[Sugar100]

No guys want marriage. Not even get my pregnant it’s strange they say I’m hot n I make them horny but no one wants get me pregnant and all girls get pregnant easily by men.

[Sugar100]

That stupid guy ruined my life. I met him at 18 n dumped him at age 25

[Sugar100]

But since then can’t find a guy to date me long term love me. Guys show attention but I still don’t have a relationship

[Miristheiss]

A guy used you at 18-24?
You gave it up.
To a guy who hadn't married you.
You chose to believe the aexual revolution stuff that since you have the pill, you could just start having sex without a marriage and it is all fine.
Found a guy or GUYS who just took you up on your commitment LESS sex.

Actions have consequences.

[Firesparks]

Id love to be in a committed relationship.. I haven't found a girl who has or willing to do just that myself..
To many I have found just wants one thing plus lie n cheat

[slatyb]

Get commitment, then get married, then make a home together, then have a child.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s good