What's worse? Being single because of your looks or your personality?

[YourFutureEx]

Being single because of your personality means at least you're a good looking person and your personality (however, extremely difficult) can be changed.

Being single because of your looks means that nothing can be done but at least you tried your best to be a good person. You did your best at what was in your control.

What would be the worse case between the two?

Looks

Personality

[ohsheeT]

What's worse is trying to put your self down because you think you have to have a reason why your not dating

The only reason your not dating is because you think like that

Look you tell your self ur ugly or you have a bad personality enough times well that's what's gonna happen

If you say f*** it, I am good looking. I have a good personality. I love life and I'm happy. Well, guess what? That's what's gonna happen

And when that happens , you kind of glow , and you're not worried about anything because you believe in yourself , and that shows on the outside of you , and when a girl looks at you , she can see that confidence so quick , fill in your head full of bullshit. Quit f****** making excuses. Quit feeling sorry for yourself

Love yourself. Have the confidence with yourself that it will happen when it happens. It will happen when it happens. And once you get this positive person on the inside going , it will shine to the outside and it will happen sooner

But anytime you talk to yourself. It's gonna take you longer and longer
Because every time you do it it's just going to leave a mark all over your face you're draining your own system. It's time to read juveniated

[Twalli]

Looks become less important, but if you're a shitty person, nobody will care when your looks fail.

[Genie23]

Definitely personality. Why? Because if you're unhappy with your looks, you can improve them by working out, eating properly, taking care of your skin and hair, and so on. If you don’t mind, you could even opt for plastic surgery to enhance your appearance. But personality is a part of you and reflection of your essence. So, no matter how good-looking you are, they won’t stay with you. Looks can only take you so far.

[ThisDudeHere]

Having plastic surgery automatically implies there's something wrong with your personality tho

[Genie23]

I get why people opt for plastic surgery- they feel insecure and if it helps them feel confident, that’s fine. I’ve never had it and won't but I do feel insecure every now and then.. I think everyone does at some point. But when people keep getting more and more work done to the point they become unrecognisable, it does show self-hate and an obsession with wanting to look perfect. Kinda reflects emotional patterns and psychological issues more than core personality traits, even though those tendencies can influence how someone acts. So, yeah. Good point.🤔

[YourFutureEx]

@ThisDudeHere do all cosmetic surgeries make your personality flawed? (Hair transplant - you used to look like that); (Wart removal etc)

[YourFutureEx]

"Because if you're unhappy with your looks, you can improve them"
The same can be said about personality too, no? Personality is ever evolving as AvaRay mentioned.

[ThisDudeHere]

Well, it's one thing to fix something. Another to alter it.

[Genie23]

Sadly.. From what I’ve seen, some people (family, friends, colleagues) don’t even admit there’s something in their personality to be worked on.

[YourFutureEx]

Apparently we live in a world where looks are more likely to evolve than personalities unfortunately

[Genie23]

So true..

[AvaRay]

Honestly, neither is truly worse..

Being single doesn’t always mean something’s wrong with your looks or personality, sometimes it just means u haven’t met someone who can truly see u yet..

Looks fade, personalities evolve, but connection, that’s something rare n real..

I’d rather be single than be with someone who only understands the surface of me..

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Honestly? Neither.

If someone is single because of their looks, it just means they’re around the wrong people.

If it’s because of personality, it usually means there’s growing still happening.

But the worst reason to be single is believing it’s a punishment.

Being single is just a season, not a verdict.

The right person won’t be scared off by your face or your flaws.

[YourFutureEx]

Glad to see a rare sight of a random fellow optimist passing by.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Optimism doesn’t have an expiration date, glad it caught your eye..

[Nikki1989]

Personality, no contest.

Being consistently selfish, overly negative, unreliable, or displaying a lack of emotional intelligence, which many people are, is crippling.

[itsannalee]

Look, coz it makes you insecure more.
Personality won’t effects your mental health that much.