Why a boy is more loving and attentive than a mom?

[Sugar100]

Me and my mom fought daily. Since I’m 28 this month and not Married living with a boyfriend gone from parents house like normal girls do, the fighting is worse😓

my mom don’t spend time with me we don’t go out. We fight daily. I live in my car as my job is far on hour from her senior apt. I hate her senior apt it’s so tiny like a studio & I’m grown I want sleep in a guys bed daily not with my mom forever 😓

even tho no guy wants be my boyfriend and loves me , I have had guy friends that are nice, warm, and supportive. My mom isn’t none of those things. This is y I always wanted a boyfriend since age 18 to feel peace comfort care, warmth, be in my own home with my man happy full of warmth and our own family and be apart of his family that love me 😓

and I can escape my family that are toxic and don’t support me. They don’t understand me. I feel trapped.

[ohsheeT]

You have 2 choices
First choice is either you change the way you talk with your mom

You make a choice when you argue with your mom to engage or be a bigger person. If you can not control yourself with you mom how will you do it with boy friend

I know your pissed your mad at the world. It's because you are mad on the i side.

Choice 2 one of the reasons you are mad is because you know down deep you spend your paychecks as fast as you get it

In life when we truly want something we get it
Of course it's not easy maybe 2 jobs for 6 months

The reason you fight with your mom is kinda funny a little bit. Because she taught you how to do it you both are the same.

one of you have to teach the other. That there is a better way of communicating life doesn't have to be that way

You say you don't like the way your mom acts. Can't be true because you act just like her

So now you can say no
Or be honest with your self with everything

What are you willing to give to get what you want

[capriVib]

A mom’s love and the love of a man who truly loves you are almost the same. But what’s wrong here is that you’re still living in your parent’s home. Even birds leave the nest when the time comes. If you moved out and started living on your own, then visited your family and your mom from time to time, your relationship with them could actually get better again.

[Sugar100]

That’s what I think but I can’t move out as my parents get mad and say I can’t move out til I’m married. Everyone in life got married and no guy asks to be his girlfriend no guy loves me. So I’m stuck here

[Sugar100]

She says I’m going down the Trash wrong path in life if I move out I can’t move til marriage 😓she says a lot of things to me daily and don’t want me to ever move

[capriVib]

There are a lot of single women over 25. If you have a job, you don’t even need to ask them for permission you’re an adult. Honestly, I think you’re the one who’s hesitant here maybe you have a fear of living alone or something. But if you keep going like this, they’ll just keep putting more pressure on you.

And in the end, you might even end up in the wrong marriage marrying someone you don’t actually want, just for the sake of getting married.

[Sugar100]

I think I will have to marry someone I don’t like as it don’t exist for 2 people love eachother it’s just one sided love always for me 😓

[itsannalee]

Because they were never been struggling like your mom when raised you.

[Sugar100]

That’s not an excuse to be a bitch

[SixFootSexy]

People have given you so much advice for your constant mix of: I need a boyfriend and family, my mom is the worst, I don't have enough money, etc.

Get a better job, get a therapist, change your life.

[WhitneySnow]

Guy friends can be nice