Who do many black women here feel discriminated and disliked by white men romantically?

[Summeroflove]

[pookipoo600p]

Admittedly I'm not a Black woman but based on my experience lots of White guys like Black women or are indifferent to her race.

The Black women who complain are those who most likely who 1) prefer White men over others and 2) don't get to pick/reject mates at the same rate the average White girl does because not every White guy is necessarily into Black women (among other women).

So it's not so much discrimination as the lack of choice of what they want *specifically*, while not mentioning some White guys may be into them but they're not perfect like she'd want to or that they're not interested in Black men which excludes a big part of the dating pool.

[Northstar84]

I’ve heard white men repeat untrue statements regarding black women for example


Their vaginas stink
They have vaginas that are too big
Their vagina is sideways
They all have AIDS
They’re mean
They always sleep around
Their hair is used to clean toilets
They get pregnant easier than white women
They’re human monkeys


These are statements from white men I have heard aloud or read online about black women by white men, it’s little wonder they avoid us white guys.

[Flower7]

I don’t understand what they mean about a vagina being sideways.

[Northstar84]

I honestly don’t know either, like maybe they believe the labia is horizontal or something? It’s stupid and is obviously 🙄 not something they actually believe it’s just used to belittle and embarrass a black woman

[Summeroflove]

Men who never been worn any woman…

[Northstar84]

They don’t literally believe they have different vaginas it’s just a racist power play against black women

[Zionne]

Because a lot of Black women have experienced or seen patterns where some white men fetishize them, exclude them, or treat them as less desirable due to stereotypes. It’s not all white men, but the trend is common enough that many Black women feel the impact. Online dating data also shows that Black women often get fewer matches and messages on average, which reinforces that feeling. It’s a mix of personal experiences, media portrayals, and unconscious biases that stack up over time.

[Kelley1]

Women are attracted to masculine men. Men are attracted to feminine women. Blacks are the most masculine race, Asians are the most feminine race. Therefore, black women are the least attractive to men. Since even black men find whites and Asians more attractive, and because many times more black men date white women than the percentage of white men that date black women, black women feel discriminated against.

[KostasKouvalis]

And oddly enough, Asian men are very feminine and are the least desired race of men

[HawkPerception]

Bang on @Kelley1 Appreciate you saying it straight.

[beefcakebradybatson]

@KostasKouvalis Black men, not Asian men, are the least liked lads.

[KostasKouvalis]

@beefcakebradybatson "least liked" in what way? Everyone says Asian men are the least desired sexually and found the least attractive. Steve Harvey said this too. But black men may be least liked in terms of behavior. Even many black women don't like them

[beefcakebradybatson]

@KostasKouvalis Most of us don't like fugly, b***hy black broads which is why many of us are dating white, Latin and European babes. And many, perhaps most white boys are being shunned by women, some of whom have gone #boysober.

[KostasKouvalis]

Sounds about right

[ABC1x1x]

The dumb ones. White men love black women. Flirt with them tell me Im wrong. You won't be able to. You will be planning your wedding. Try me. I told you so.

[Anonymous]

Lots of great takes on this already
Personally I never had a issue with there appearance it was always the attitude that I steered clear of. I even had a few crushes while I lived out west.

[Anonymous]

I never noticed that... and they don't have any reason to feel like that.

[jazzy34]

Because racism still exists. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Because they don’t like us honkers… they want that radiator pipe

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Or it could just be preference

[dudeinohio]

I've always been attracted to black women.