Its hard to tell my boyfriend how I feel because he keeps saying im a little girl. Im 24 and he's 29. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

A little girl in what way? Maybe he has. A valid point. I don’t know. Depends on how you act. If you’re acting like a little girl rather than a grown up then yes he’s correct. So maybe you should take a deep look at yourself into how you act. Maybe this is what he’s talking about.

[Anonymous]

Call him a pedophile everytime he calls you a little girl.

Since you reference age and not stature I assume it's an age thing not a height thing. Bot ages, 24 and 29 are still pretty young. I get that life experiences between 24 and 29 CAN be vast. But you can be 29 and sheltered and 24 an quite experienced. So age doesn't necessarily mean anything. Either way the comment does come off as a tad insulting. Or you could say in a year you'll have to get a new man because he be an crusty 30.😆

[DishLady]

If he's persistently undermining your feelings you tell him so ONE TIME, explaining that it pisses you off when he does that. If he persists in undermining your feelings then dump him so he understands there is a consequence to mistreating you.

[Finchie40]

tell him to stop calling you a little girl , and if he doesn't, start calling him little dick lol

[IloveMacDemarco4]

LMAO I LOVE THIS ANSWER

[Finchie40]

Yea give it right back to him , maybe he will get the hint to not call you that anymore lol

[aaron13547]

Find a boyfriend that listens to you and doesn't see you that way.

Honestly, thats kind of cringe to me, because he is your boyfriend... him thinking of you as a "little girl" is wrong in my mind. There should be a sense of respect in that, sounds like its the opposite... I think you should be seen as the women beside him not, his little girl to tell what to do. 😖

[HighValue]

Most women, from 14 to mid 30s have the same mentality/maturity. Most women either never mature, or they mature late in life after they see the consequences of their bad life decisions. The majority of women are mentally/emotionally like teenagers, even into mid adulthood.

[MisterPandemonium]

What exactly does he mean when he says you're a "little girl"?

Like have you lived a sheltered life? Are you really short? Do you have a "young" personality?

[slatyb]

You should date someone who treats you as an equal.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Dump him for a handsome older black cowboy !!!

[Daytoday79]

Just tell him you don't appreciate what he's saying.

[fonduegirl]

Well he's kinky

[Zionne]

does he say it in a negative way?

[888theGreat]

Would you prefer little sister or half pint?

[zombiewoof]

Find a guy that respects you

[MasterKS]

Kick him out!