Phone emergency?
2 moI try to be pretty direct for me to just get up and leave it would have to be going REALLY bad especially since I like the first few dates to be pretty simple without pressure on either of us. Coffee works best for a first date I don’t want to be stuck with someone or someone to feel stuck with me if things aren’t working.
If it gets to the point where I’m walking out on someone. You have obviously crossed some boundaries and will know why I’m leaving. If it’s just not working out that’s not a huge deal we just respectfully have that conversation.
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2 moI'm not the creative type. When I'm done I'm done. It would be more like...
"You can leave now. I'll take care of the bill. Enjoy the rest of your evening. It was interesting meeting you."
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Respect
I had some not so great dates but only one I decided to deliberately end early as in, leave the dinner. I claimed a friend needed to talk to me about something important. I don’t know if he believed me, honestly I assumed he didn’t and that would be OK. I probably should have just said “I think I’m going to leave, thank you” without any pretense, he ended up texting me a bunch and I answered rarely and was noncommittal, he eventually gave up.
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Oh my, what did he do to screw up a date that much?
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He ordered a bottle of wine, it was early and I didn’t want to drink before we ate, he was gulping down glasses of wine while I sat there drinking water, he was also trying to act cool, I just didn’t have a good feel for where it was going or what he thought the date was, so I did not want to be there.
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I think that was actually a smart call. Gulping wine is 🚩
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2 moI don’t think I have ever had a bad date. All were fine.
I just had a date right the day I took my splint off from my nose after surgery, did I look my best? Nope.
The date was amazing though… :) We couldn’t stop talking for hours despite both of us being late for trips to another countries.31 Reply- 2 mo
That sounds like an exciting moment
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3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I patted him on the back, promised to lose his number and walked out.
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I would be 😖🤬😭
741 opinions shared on Dating topic. I wish I could’ve come up with a better excuse, but one time a bad date was such a negative Nancy about everything we talked about and brought up his ex girlfriend issues… I immediately thanked him for the date and said I need to go home to rest since I start work really early the next day… even though I actually start work at 9AM Lol. Wbu potato head?
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My go to is ill text my mom something that I know she will call me back freaking out and I just start an argument with her so that when I pick up the phone I'm like "MAAAAM, HOW MANY TIMES FO WE NEED TO HAVE THIS EXACT CONVERSATION"
And then just storm out
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That's a good one though he probably was like 🤔🫥
2 moI WAS the bad date. I’ve had guys walk away (not many, but some); one going out the fire escape.
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@MissSunshine2 It's really cool that you admitted that.
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The fire escape 😂
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Why 😪
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@BrittneyHl honestly, they didn’t find me attractive. I am mildly attractive since I gained 15 kilos for medical reasons, (started off beautiful); but I am chubby now. I have two chins that I never used to have and I am more of an apple shape than the hourglass that I was. I’ve had modelling opportunities as a fatty, so I must be attractive. But the fact that I’m fat now turns some guys off and fair enough, I suppose. As long as they’re not mean about it.
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That is really sad. You deserve better
1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. So I entered " desperate and dateless " in Melbourne some years ago , I had a decent match but I had some girlfriends who were also there 100s of people , I just did a runner..
My phone was going all night , I just wanted to go home , enough..00 Reply13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. There was one date I should have ended as soon as it started. I contacted her based on an online profile, and when we met I saw that the picture she had posted was about ten years a hundred pounds out of date. I should have just said "I'm sorry but you don't resemble the picture you posted. I don't think this is going to work. Best wishes."
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Anonymous(25-29)2 moI can tell you what happened to me… he was on his phone, he looked at the waitress, he devalued me, threw stuff back in my face I told him, mentioned sex…. Just became a jerk towards the end.
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Sorry to hear that, I'm sure it was frustrating
Opinion Owner2 moAnd then ghosted
8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. The only time I ever wanted to end a date early was with the last girl I dated before I met my future wife. We were going to a concert that was at her college and I was going to dump her right after that. As soon as the concert was over I told her i had to get up early the next day to go to work. I never saw her again.
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2 moI spilled something all over myself so I could get out of there.
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2 moHad co workers page me. I'd call work and pretend there was a work emergency... then leave the date.
Used pagers.. this was before cellphones were affordable for everyone.10 Reply 892 opinions shared on Dating topic. I said that I had to use the restroom but what I really did was call a cab and snuck out and went home.
Well... he kept flirting with the waitress (server).01 Reply- 2 mo
Talk about tone Def 🫣
Anonymous(36-45)2 moI've never been on a real date, but I had something like a "blind date".
She was not my type at all... but I did prepare for that possibility, so yes, it was phone emergency, my brother called, so I had to leave as soon as possible, cause "he had a car accident" :P
00 Reply366 opinions shared on Dating topic. I haven't ended any bad dates.
I haven't been on any that were bad enough to bail out on.
There've been some that weren't good, but I've plugged through to the end.00 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
2 moI never tried this but you can always used the good ol 'i got the runs!' and quickly get out of there. usually they'll get it lol
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740 opinions shared on Dating topic. @Telekinetic-Potato Opened her door and pushed her out on the freeway.
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2 moI cannot remember a bad date. I go out to have no pressure fun.
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2 moAll dates never ended early but i have to say none were actually good. Most are just women getting something for free.
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Anonymous(36-45)2 moStared long and hard at her addams apple. that was a hint.
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2 moI've never had a bad date until I was married and there is no way out of that one.
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Loool
Anonymous(45 Plus)2 moI said I'm dogsitting for a friend so I had to leave to let the dog out.
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2 moWhere I just tell her I have to go..
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2 moI stick it out like a wounded soldier!!!
00 Reply 799 opinions shared on Dating topic. yeah, emergency call
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Anonymous(30-35)2 moI got stood up once 🔂
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Nick! Don't be so negative lol sorry bout that though
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