What will make you end a date on the spot?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

For me personally, although my "dates" nowadays are of a business nature, rudeness, vulgarity, lack of effort and partecipation, will make me cut the date short - also lack of hygiene and overall improper behavior.

When I'm out with someone on a date or a dinner, I'm doing my best to give them a pleasant experience and give them my best self, and I expect for them to do the same. Also, be punctual or give me a heads up if you'll be late - time is money and I want to be home within a certain hour - so if the other person is very late, I won't be staying past my end time to make up for their tardiness - if I agreed to be with you for two hours, and you arrive 30 minutes later, I'll stay with you one hour and a half.

Last, expecting "something more" after the date - no, thank you. I'm very upfront that I'm happily married and while for business I'm willing - with my wife's consent - to entertain you for an evening or afternoon, I'm not crossing that line for a deal. Naturally it's much rarer for women to "push their luck" like men do, but some oddball still tries - maybe to get a leverage or fishing for blackmail material.

They say that usually is the woman who silently judges the man during an outing or a date, be it romantic or business-related - I do the same. I might be smiling and nodding, but if you embarass me or give me a lasting a bad impression, I will be cutting our date short and won't see you ever again.

What about you?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

If it's for a romantic date, I can't really think of much that would make me leave "on the spot" beside the person being obviously unstable or a menace to be around. I would definitely offer to pay for the date (would do it regardless) and leave as soon as possible if I don't want to see the person anymore.

If it's for non romantic reasons, like business as you mentioned, yes, my standards would be different and I would leave if the person was disrespectful, inconsiderate, or anything else that would be wrong with them.

[MendaciousMarxist]

• Makes me feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
• Makes any remarks or "jokes" that are racist, sexist, homophobic, or otherwise bigoted.
• if he's a single father, poly, bisexual (queer), or cheap
• If I met him online and I found out he lied about something, especially his appearance.
• and most especially, if I somehow find out he has a girlsaskguys account

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

The last one is the most important.

[MendaciousMarxist]

Definitely, there's weird people who use this site

[MendaciousMarxist]

Thank you for most helpful!

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't entertain any women in a social situation unless my girlfriend is with me. The best way to deal with temptation is to avoid it. And even if nothing inappropriate happens on a date, the woman can always claim that something happened.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

For me it's purely business, and generally it's easier to do with men (instead of a fancy restaurant, we can go and grab a beer and watch soccer).
Thankfully as of now I've only dealt with professionals of both genders.

[Guy13]

NOTHING… I’m not willing to be manipulated and often we’re being tested. I’m going to keep the higher ground and she can go 🦇 💩 Cra Cra

[LazerBean]

Of course I'm married now, so I don't go on dates with other men anymore so I am speaking just as if I were still single. I'm big on watching people, so even if the date is going really badly I would get enough entertainment from my amusement of awkward situations to not walk out. I think probably the only exception would be if they smelled bad enough that I could not be comfortable, or if they were vulgar and very forward.

[Agape93]

Controlling behavior. I don't care if you're a 10/10 in every category, I will walk the second you start that.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

"I hear ya, now pipe down sweetheart, will ya?" - I'm just kidding, please don't kill me.

[Agape93]

Lol.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I know that would have netted me a punch if I was within reach.

[Agape93]

Lol only if you meant it xD

[Agape93]

But you're a good man, so no worries 👍

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Thank you

[NathanDavis]

when they take off their jacket or whichever coating/upper layer of clothing and it reveals any neo-nazi or white supremacist tattoos or any other paraphernalia alike

[iceprincess8]

Dates are like job interviews sometimes lol

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Exactly.

[anon1903]

Sexist jokes that aren't really funny

[kevypatyy7]

Too much self recognition and appreciation