Single people, does being single actually bother you or not?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

For me , it does get lonely at times, cuz I am so use to being with someone , so I do prefer having a girl by my side , but I don’t want to just find some random girl to be by my side , I want great chemistry and connection with her first before I even consider being in a relationship again , so in a sense I am kind of being picky with who I end up with next , since I had my heart broken a few times before , so I definitely don’t want to experience that again, especially at my age now. So at times I rather be single then to end up with someone that really isn’t good for me. I like taking the slower path with someone over the faster path. I feel my previous relationships has taught me to be wiser about who to accept and not accept into my life , I don’t expect perfect because no one is perfect , but I want a girl that values relationships, that isn’t selfish , that understands boundaries aren’t control thing because they are both set between the both of us to be on the same page with each other so our love for each other can continue to grow. Unfortunately I ended up with girls’ that wanted me to follow boundaries for her, but when it came to following boundaries for me , i was considered insecure and controlling, which wasn’t the case at all. Because all I wanted was to be respected the same way I respected her. So when a girl tries to write Sucker on my head , little does she realize I will start writing Sucker on hers’ if she is pulling shady shit with me. Unfortunately na lot of girls’ think they should be catered to at all times, that think she deserves the princess treatment at all times without having to give in return , that shit doesn’t work with me whatsoever , if she wants to be a princess then she is best to treat me like a prince , not a joker. So until I find a girl that isn’t selfish and only thinks of herself , my ass is staying single.

Orion84 · Accepted Answer

Nope, not at all.

It used to, when I was younger, and between relationships, but after having a couple of long term, very serious relationships, I find that I'm much happier, and more at peace, being alone.

My last relationship ended about 2.5 years ago, after 15 years together, and I find that I'm not even interested in another one. I'm content to be by myself, and plan to stay alone for the forseeable future.

MissSunshine2 · Accepted Answer

Yes, often. However, I’d rather be single than unhappily married. I always keep that in mind.  I also like having no one to answer to or share my money with. I can spend it however I want.

CriminallyInsane · Accepted Answer

I've not been single for long enough for it to bother me quite yet but it probably will once I've decided to put some effort into finding someone new

HawkPerception · Answer

Yes. It's always much more fulfilling to share experiences with someone at your side than going it alone. I'm not a fan of being single, but I'd also rather be single than end up with someone I'm not happy being with and don't see a future with.

Being single is lonely and unfulfilling. And I'm sick of the world pushing this garbage of making especially women think that being single is empowering.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well being single for a long time can be lonely but it’s important not to get so desperate you’ll settle for anything. It’s better to be alone than to be abused, cheated on, used, and completely miserable.

Levin · Answer

I've sort of become used to it and incredibly emotionally hardy in a certain sense. I can really look after myself emotionally, and seldom get lonely or needy. It's far from being all sweetness and light, but honestly, it's going to be weird adjusting to being in a relationship again, which I think might happen soon.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Well I'm an introvert and technically single but I can pretty much get a date any time I want so I'm loving my life right now. I have the fun of dates and romance but none of the drudgery and drama of a formal relationship. And I'm free to do whatever I want nearly all the time. That suits me at the moment.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

In away yes being single isn't all that great

Being single offers immense freedom, personal growth, and peace, but it can absolutely feel lonely or challenging, especially with societal pressures. It is often viewed as a valuable time to build self-worth, avoid toxic relationships, and invest in friendships, yet the desire for companionship is normal.

MittParekh15 · Answer

Well yes being single does bother as after certain age your friends are busy in their own life , you also want someone with whome you can share your feelings

You need someone to have sex
You need someone to cuddle
You need someone to hug
You need someone to tease
You need someone who wish good for you
You need someone with whome you will create a life and a mini version of yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

yes it does.

having no one to have sex with,

no one to cuddle with

no one to talk to during the worst times of my life

having no one to travel with

no one to have kids with

i don't have a gang own my own that i know will defend me when i need it.

anyone who says being single is amazing either has mental issues or is lying. i can promise you that

Anonymous · Answer

It bothered me when I was young, and then I grew to where it didn’t bother me for years, until I got extremely horny and age 35 and now it bothers me again.

HighValue · Answer

It is much less stressful for me, less drama, don't have someone trying to use up money I earned, and I can do what I want all the time when off work without any problems.

PolarPoint · Answer

Yes , I want a relationship when I’m single. But when I have one, I consistently think we should break up

queenofcardio · Answer

It does randomly but I'm actively talking to people so we'll see

thegreenyogi · Answer

No it doesn't bother me. Being alone unpartnered doesn't equal Loneliness or unhappiness.

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t like to be single, but the girlfriend has to bring something to the table. Don’t make me do all the work while you live in my house for free and are lazy. You have to help out

Redhanded1020 · Answer

Usually no, occasionally I get lonely but generally I don’t worry about it.. I take care of my needs and enjoy it plenty, and I don’t usually worry about much else any more..

DonaldDarko · Answer

Prefer it greatly. I'm me not just some girl's boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

It does bother me somewhat 😈😋🤭 yet it is what it is 😂 I'm waiting for an overdue hospital circumcision to be able to have a sexually active functioning.

Brady · Answer

No, freedom n worry free about partner doin somethin wrong like throwing away or givin away something of yours.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not really, but my being single includes lots of dating. Single with no prospects would probably bother me.

Jennz6 · Answer

I’d rather be single than unhappy with a boyfriend or husband

Anonymous · Answer

Better to be single for the right reasons than in a relationship for the wrong ones. Is this where I saw my life going? No. But I'm right where God wants me to be apparently. So I accept that.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Nope, when I did date it just sort of happened with no effort on my part

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Used too but not anymore, I'm content enough being single I use dating apps still but mainly just out if boredom lol

Dnice1 · Answer

Sometimes it does and sometimes it does not bother me

msc545 · Answer

Yes, of course it bothers me that the alternative is potentially worse.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, it bothers me, but there is not much I can do about it.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Nope, I'm single by choice.

NathanDavis · Answer

no, it doesn't bother me

Tomislav7 · Answer

Being single, no. Being outcasted, yes.

Sunshinelips · Answer

Only when I’m h0rny or wanting a cuddle at night.

jazzy34 · Answer

Kind of. I want to be with someone.

LC75LC71 · Answer

It's worked out better for me.

salmansaifi · Answer

i am single anyone single girl here

FreyaRed · Answer

Nope...

Zionne · Answer

not at all

Ariesman81Nshiiit · Answer

Is what it is

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Yes it bothers me

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