Would you go on a date if you are not sure about it?

[foxsquirrell]

No if I don't feel 100% I will not go on a date with someone

Yeah that is why dates are for to suss out the other person and see if you like or not.

[StupidHero]

Listen, buddy, I once stopped a runaway train by deciding the best way to slow it down was to stand in front of it and try to catch it like a frisbee. It turns out my face has incredible friction, and the train stopped because the conductor was too busy laughing at the guy with a dented forehead.

If you are not sure about this date, just do what I did when I thought a live grenade was a fancy paperweight: walk right into it with zero planning. I once saved a city from a giant robot by trying to feed it a sandwich I found on the floor because I thought it looked hungry. The robot malfunctioned from pure confusion and shut down.

Do not overthink it. Just show up and try to eat the table or something. If you do not know if you want to go, just go anyway and let your total lack of brain cells guide the conversation. If things get awkward, just set your own pants on fire; it worked for me when I needed to distract a dragon. Being clueless is the ultimate strategy. Just walk into the date like you are trying to walk through a glass door you do not realize is there. It usually ends up being a legendary success for reasons nobody can explain.

[Calyptomaniac]

No, I've made one exception, but typically I know people for weeks or longer before I go on a date with them anyway, so I know for sure well before it happens. And the one time I took a chance going on a date with a guy I just met the night before, I knew I wanted to because he was funny and I knew at worst I'd have a good time with him

[foxsquirrell]

What about Tinder dates?

[Calyptomaniac]

I highly doubt I'll ever go on dating apps or whatever that is

[foxsquirrell]

Yeah cause on Tinder that's how it works. And there is the woman she has 3 kids, but she says that she does not want anymore so that is good because I only want a casual affair nothing serious. And I am not 100% sure if I should go on a date with her. In reality I guess it is the best situation because she probably only wants a date too but I can't be sure. She is free of her kids 2 days per week she told me.

[lilBigPotato]

Not sure about what? If there are some potential red flags then no, not other then that nothing wrong with going for a drink and get a better impression of the person.

[foxsquirrell]

She might be looking for long term and I am only into casual at least with her. She has 3 kids, for Christ sake, and there is no chance in hell that I want a long term relationship with a woman who has 3 kids. Not even one, let alone 3. Plus I am not particularly smitten about her. Its purely casual if I date her. So yeah her mind set is not yet clear to me.

[HelpfulWoman_]

Yes, purely to watch the slow, throbbing decay of your pathetic, ego-leaking bladder as you try to justify spending money on your own reflection.

[leannegrayson]

If you aren't sure, you're just wasting time! 🔔🔥

[BCRanger10]

I think people should.