What aspects of being single do you value or miss the most?

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ohsheeT · Answer

There's nothing wrong with being single

It the moment in time when you get to stop and think I'll let you truly want and what you truly need to be happy and to make somebody happy

The whole thing is a learning experience

And we either learn something very valuable or we don't and we're going to live the next time around the whole process is being honest with yourself on who you are and what you truly want and then having the patience to wait or to find that person

SueShe · Answer

I am single and celibate by choice and conviction. Life has proved that my decision was the right one.

I keep saying it over and over again but for all those that have not yet heard my arguments, here they come.

I do what I want whenever I want
I clean my own mess only
I have the freedom to do as I want without having to take others into consideration
I don't have the pressure to deliver or perform the way others want
I only have to worry about my own stupidity and nonsense
I can cry watching a romantic movie without getting those looks from a tough guy
I go to bed whenever I want and above all, alone
I don't go on others' nerves when I am moody
I eat what I like and only cook for one person and not an army
I save money by not having to go out or to a restaurant
I decorate my place to my liking
I have no mistrust issues
I could tell another million and one other arguments

And to all those that argue that the most important is missing, I say no, I do not place importance on what you are thinking of and to me it is not a loss not to have it.

Alex-Snow · Answer

You ask a great question. I'm single by choice. I'm 21 and in college and do not want a serious relationship at this time in my life. I do have a very casual friends with benefits in college and we are friends and we both love sex but value our independence. I want and know I will get married one day, have a family hopefully but right now I want to concentrate on college grades/work but also have some fun sex when I have time. Am I greedy maybe but so far it is working. I read some of your replies and you want to wait for sex which I very much respect. When the time is right for you it will be meaningful and fun!!!

There_Is_Rehab · Answer

Defying the unsolicited advice i received "never be alone, that is when the devil tempts you"

When being alone, childhood abuse survivors are flooded with anxiety. And that's not a devil attack, that's our own body screaming at us "we are finally safe to trash around, contort our face, and feel scared, which we were silenced from as an infant".

The whole "better than with the wrong person" is cope that implies you're even capable of choosing the wrong person, and your attraction is anxiety based.

Abbycado · Answer

Just the plain old freedom of doing what I wanted when I wanted.

Micheal6918 · Answer

You won't have to worry about a lot of things when you are single. Relationship needs total hard work

sawno · Answer

Its easier to work on my health when I don't have to account for the energy the relationship costs. At this current moment I am going through a tougher phase so I need that. But under normal circumstances i'd much rather be in a relationship.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nothing whatsoever. I haven't been single much since the age of 12, but when I was, I hated it. People are meant to be together. This isn't weakness or neediness. It's biology.

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Just like your picture claims... It's better to be single, than being with the wrong person.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I wanted to be in a relationship for a while but then I thought of it deeper and realized I wouldn't be able to do most of the things I do now if I did so I chooce my peace

lilBigPotato · Answer

No compromises, just doing whatever I feel like.

loveslongnails · Answer

The best part of being single is that you answer to no one but yourself. You do what you want, when and how you want, you don't have to compromise, adjust or consider anyone else's feelings.

lessthansane · Answer

I agree with the picture. A incomparable partner will cause nothing but waves and destroy both lives

whosnumber_1 · Answer

I think it's all about being thankful for what you have in the moment

RavVid · Answer

Not being responsible for another person. Reduced expenditure cause women cost money. Peaceful life cause women deliberately start fights.

emeraldsaphire · Answer

having a full bed to myself lol.

Adogdog · Answer

I am single and the freedom is nice I guess lol

leviopperman · Answer

peace and quiet. I do whatever I want whenever I want. Lack of someone else's bs.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

That there's no one to give me a headache and nagging non stop, nor do i have to balance a woman's hormones and bipolar disorder 🤣🤣

Looser_Shah_98 · Answer

You get freedom tp do flirt with any girl I want  So single by a choice...

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I'm never in doubt who wears the trousers in my household. I'm the only one here!

theskyrider · Answer

It's Good to be. Are you Single or in relationship? What do you value the most Masie?

exitseven · Answer

Having no responsibility to other people.

Staximus · Answer

I’m tired of being single

scott04sa22 · Answer

Freedom and single by choice.

AgentG111 · Answer

That's an excellent statement.

DirtyOldMan777 · Answer

nothing. relationships are better

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I value my me time

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Peace

jamesgoldman · Answer

Freedom

jahaims · Answer

I miss nothing

kinks1951 · Answer

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