4–5 months of dating, shouldn’t he have stronger feelings instead of I like you?

[Anonymous]

[NoDecision]

Are you having sex? If so he is getting what he wants, so why look for anything serious? Now, if you are not, then you should say goodbye, because you seem more like friends than anything serious. I guess it just depends on how much you can put up with.

[Asker]

No sex yet

[slatyb]

Never mind what he says. What does he do? Does he pay attention when you talk? Is he loving, or merely nice? Some men will just string you along because they don't want to be alone, and the entire time they pretend to be with you they are looking for the woman they really want. Don't allow yourself to be the placeholder.

[Anonymous]

Probably. I'd end the relationship by that point if my feelings were close to gound zero. Unfortunately, there is a bar that has been set. I need to at least believe they have a chance to overcome it by that point.

[lilBigPotato]

Well, yes but it might also be a case of him not being very vocal or just bad at articulating his feelings. But that is something you should know yourself after that long time.

[Nikki1989]

He is using you until he can move on with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Love moves at varying speeds depending on how serious it is. I wouldn't say I love you to anyone that fast.

[Alex-Snow]

I think so. Are you sexually involved with him also?

[Ironic_Method]

Some people take a longer time to fall for someone. I am one of those people.

[Iron_Man]

I think so

[LotharioENERZY]

had sex or not?

[Asker]

No sex yet

[LotharioENERZY]

no sex in 4-5 months, he have zero intrest now for sure.