That statement isn't true for everyone, but it could be true for some people who really just have a thing for black guys. There's nothing wrong with that, but you're limiting yourself, and you should also remember that there's more to a person than their skin color. It's also possible that the guy you hooked up with just happened to be a better match for you than any guy you were with in the past, and that may be skewing your perception of the situation- the fact that you had a better experience with him might be completely unrelated to his skin color. You might also just be so excited by the new experience that you've become a little obsessed, and that could wear off with time. You may go back to being attracted to other races/ skin tones as well.
Either way, you're attracted to what you're attracted to, and that's fine. Everyone has preferences. Whatever your preferences are, just remember to treat potential mates with respect whether they meet your requirements or not, and make sure you pay attention to more than just their appearance.
i think I'm kind of in a similar situation as you. I've always been attracted to both black and white guys, and even Hispanic guys for that matter.
i dated a couple white guys in high school and my fresh year of college. one guy was an ass but the other was a sweetheart. for various reasons we broke up though.
but earlier this year I met a really really cute black guy. we really hit it off as friends but soon after I knew I had stronger feelings than just that. when we did have sex it was the best sex I've ever had, by far haha. I think our sex has made our emotional connection even stronger to each other. now I seem to be really attracted to black guys more so than before.
i hope this helps :)
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I am into black men too but I have ventured back to white occasionally, but for me I just like black guys more they give me more pleassure because I'm more attracted to their dark skin their dark skin their boldness and swag.
I've been with black guys exclusively from my 14th till my 17th and my 19th till a few months ago!
I think it's true once you go black, you never go back, but every once in a while you have a white snack!
Don't worry be happy and enjoy!
greetz Amanda
Every girl knows that, and they don't want the white guys to know it. This keeps their fiancial options open.
Negril in Jamaica is the number one sex tourism spot for North America women and the tropical beaches of Zanzibar, Kenya, Gambia, Ghana for the European white girls for over a hundred years.
A French Army Surgeon (1898/1972), a 30-year specialist in
genitourinary diseases} makes reference to numerous anatomical
distinctions which show a similar pattern of whites being between
blacks and Orientals. ... size of genitalia (Orientals smallest,
blacks largest). We averaged the ethnographic data on erect penis and
found the means to approximate: Orientals, 4 to 5.5 in. in length and
1.25 in. in diameter; Caucasians, 5.5 to 6 in. in length and 1.5 in.
in diameter; blacks, 6.25 to 8 in. in length and 2 in. in diameter."
(Rushton, J. P. & Bogaert, A. F. (1987) Race differences in sexual
behavior: Testing an evolutionary hypothesis. Journal Research in
Personality 21(4): pp. 536-7)
Everybody want's good stuff. If you experienced great time with black guy, it might happen to become your favorite type. It could have been in reverse. One white guy and no black ones again. That does not mean that next guy who will impress you won't be white guy. But it is somewhat less likely.
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Kacie you need help for your mental disorder. It's abnormal to be attracted to those outside of your own race to this degree. Races were created for a reason by God. Who are we to interfere with that? Bottom line is, it's abnormal. White Men want white women who have class, standards, intelligence and character. Sadly there are few white "men" it seems. Those same traits define what a real Man is. Sadly the black male is the prime example of what a MAN isn't. No responsibility, low intelligence, racists, hate filled, lack of impulse control and given to crime. Statistics bear all of these out as we all know they do, whether we want to admit it or not. For a white woman, from her own lack of womanly traits and out of pure lust and lack of intelligence, chooses to have sex with a black male, no white MAN has any use for her again. Please stay in the bed you made for yourself. A Man considers the genetics of his child. Apparently narcissistic lust filled females (not Women) don't. Not only are you not "Wanted" back, you're not "NEEDED" especially when it comes to child bearing for a white MAN. Such inferior and weak genetics based in character, definitely don't need to continue.
im surprised that no girl has pointed out the possibility of her being emotionally attached to this guy somehow...
Maybe you had a connection with him. Have you ever been in love? The kiss is different, the sex is different, its all different when you are emotionally attached. Maybe he did everything perfect in every way and now you look for a way to kind of "reconnect" with him and you choose to do that through race?
Im not saying that's the case, but hey, maybe it is? Just something I initially thought?
(look at cenicienta's answer)
She was in love with a guy of a particular race and she seems to fall for them more often...
your personal preference has just changed, that's all!
I don't know whether it's true or not in most cases, but I've been involved with quite a few white girls and a lot of them had a long-running interest in black guys that obviously started at some point. However the girls who live in places which have a higher white population seem to 'go back' whereas the girls from London (where I live) definitely follow that stereotype, and there's a high black population here so it makes sense. I doubt they think that we're better lovers, probably just have an interest in the contrast of color/culture, which I think is cool. What do you think?
This question is introducing some racial comments both against black and against other races. It's really uncalled for -_-
p.s. I'm not blaming the question asker, I'm blaming the commentators who have nothing better to say than to type foolish comments.
It might just be a faze? Haha! Like you experience something and you just want that one thing more and more, but then if you don't get it... it will fade away or your feelings towards both white and black guys will be the same!
Ive never been with a black guy before like, although id like too!
Is it true what they say? (about the size... ;) !) xx
It's because it's different!
Most people are too use to their own culture so we can see the beauty in others allot more then our own kind. I'm mostly black but I never date any black woman, I have nothing against them I just feel more interested in something new I guess.
the Normal Black guy cares about his looks more then the average white male. Look at all the sports stars who play football that are black and basketball as well. My High school, while in a white town had more Black guys kicking ass on the football field then white/Spanish males. they were ripped, trimmed and of course Overly cocky , all things woman say they love lmao.
I Myself Like Latin woman, they have such wonderful hair, Hips and a nice ass/leg ratio.
Euro woman have very beautiful/exotic faces and Indian woman are like a mix of latin and euro.
You probably have more chemistry and more in common with a black guy. I don't believe the statement once you go black you never go back. I know plenty of women that have. This ex I was with said she dated a black guy shortly. She also said I was the best sex she ever had. Statement = false.
I've heard people say both, and on this site, I've seen both opinions. Personally I think it's somewhat superficial either way. However, I could just be biased because I'm a girl, but I feel like the second one ("once you go black we don't want you back") is worse because you're judging someone based on their past rather than simply changing your preferences.
This married guy I had sex with was, not black as in "African" but rather from India.
Sure he was good for a f*** once or twice but I couldn't live with him even if he ditched his wife.
I eventually found a white woman and married her. So yes, I went back.
No,black dudes only good for smke wed and crack and they are lazy for work all the time,i am latina and in latin America we have a powerful drug cartel who can kill you only for mix the race,white girls and latin girl in usa may be hose girls like black dudes becuse the people in usa lose all culture and honor,in latin merica Mexico to Argentina we are Maya,Aztec or Inca we have culture and we don't like to make our blood durty,black people in usa lose all the africa culture poor people but sorry,if one day I go into the blacky dudes I will pay for that with my life,ppl who love to kill latina girls who like black dudes is the people like los Z (Zetas) drug cartel
i think sex is good if you're attracted to the person, so if you're attracted to black guys more, yeah you'll get more turned on by them.
i don't think the myth is true because the smallest d*** I ever saw was on a black guy. but what I experienced is that once you start dating black guys other guys get kinda intimidated so you just kinda end up sticking with black guys because that's who wants to hook up with you the most, I donno
By hooked up did you mean sex? Because black guys tend to have bigger d***s compared to the average white male... Maybe you just love big cock? Nothing to be ashamed of! haha. Everyone has a type, maybe you just prefer black guys, there is nothing wrong with it.
hehe! I don't think its true a few friends and I have dated black guys before and we didn't only date black guys for me doesn't really matter what race you are if you have a connection with that person and they make you happy then that's the only thing that should matter :)
To be honest, I think the guys have hit the nail on the head. If the sex/company/whatever was really memorable you'll see black men as better and if you have more in common with black people you're more likely to have a good time!
I'm the same, but with me it's white musicians, in particular guitarists. I don't like massively muscled, sculpted abs, etc etc. I'd always chose the tall, slim, dark haired musician. If it makes you happy, don't beat yourself up about it, it's natural! :)
Hmmm that's interesting. I'm in the same position but with white girls. I used to only be interested in Indian girls but I recently hooked up with a white girl and now I love white girls. I'm so glad there are so many white girls at my university lol. I'm still interested in all races, but I'm much more interested in white girls than any other.
I feel kinda similar, like a couple of years ago I used to have no interest in black girls but now I pretty much only am attracted to them and want to be with them. But I am still open to dating other races, I would say you are pretty similar. You just have a preference, no problem with that
i'm the same way, but not with blacks :)
once I "kinda fell in love" with a guy of a particular race, I only see them now.
its not just a race thing though, it happens with other traits too. like if the guy you loved played football, or the piano or whatever you'll be more interested in guys as soon you find out they do these things too. at least that's how it is for me...
I've been with a few black guys before, but mostly white. Yes I have gone back, to be honest I was really curious to begin with but they did not seem any different in size when we had sex, one was even much smaller :O.
It depends on the girl, I like both but prefer to date white guys
Once you go fat, you never go back either. lmfao!
Okay, just go sleep with someone who isn't black and maybe that will change your mindset. That is the only thing I can think of.
Is it true what they say about size? ... I've never been with a black guy but I would love to! :) ... Same is true about women... I'm bi curious and never been with a woman before but I definitely want to! :)
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