Older women with younger men.

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Women, would you marry a younger man?Men, would you marry an older woman?

kdizzleforizzle91 · Accepted Answer

I'd go for an older man or one my age first if I were to choose based only on age. If he's my age, he most likely understands my life situation more (work and school, etc). If he's older, he still does, and has been there. He's probably already achieved some of his goals and can help support me through the rough times while I'm working toward mine. When a guy is younger, he hasn't has the same experiences and might not understand my whole point of view, and he's most likely still immature and needs to grow up and learn what he wants in life and in a romantic partner.

dinedine · Accepted Answer

For me, I would marry a younger man, Not all younger man are immature/childish.  Most of the guys I dated was younger than me for a year or 2.  And I felt like we both have the power to control everything because he is not that superior to me.  It is also an advantage because when your partner is young, you got to stay young always too:)   Sometimes, when guys are older, they always think that they have the ability to control in a relationship.  But is is nice though to be cared by an older lover because of security.  :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would. I always seem to get younger men for some reason I don't know. Maybe it's because I think like a person younger than my age. My boyfriend is 6 years younger. I won't lie and say we didn't have our probs but then we've been together many years. It could work. Besides, men die younger then women. And since I plan to have kids much later, I hope my man can stick around longer to watch our kids grow up.

mangaka92 · Accepted Answer

A year or two older or younger isn't really an issue, in my opinion, and hasn't really affected too many relationships. However, I find that more girls that are older than me tend to treat me like a younger brother, and that is a huge turn off. That's why I tend to only go for girls younger than me. I don't understand everyone's "Age doesn't matter" nonsense. I don't see anyone with 50 years difference in age. Apparently age matters to some people or else there'd be some 20 year olds with some 70 year olds. Age must matter some. Lol

kheserthorpe · Accepted Answer

Wife is 5 years older then me.

LJHam · Answer

It would depend on his maturity level and what we have in common.  There's a certain level of physiology that comes into play here.  Since a woman hits her sexual prime in her 40s which is about the time men start to go limp, then it's not surprising a woman would want a younger man.

Mande1985 · Answer

I'm a 28 year old woman who is 10 years older than her boyfriend. I'm actually about to move in with him today. We do plan on being married. I love younger men. However, this is the youngest I've ever been with. I think its more logical for a older woman to be with a younger man. Especially the sexual aspect of it.

TPAgrl89 · Answer

My husband is 3 years older than me, and I think that is perfect. I never dated anyone younger than me.. something about it just never seemed right to me. It's the greatest thing to find a man, who is secure, responsible, self sufficient, has a great job, and who has got his single party days out of his system. :)

salma92 · Answer

hmmm...i once dated a guy 3 years younger than me. he was sweet and really great, but emotionally, he was very weak/vulnerable. he'd get insecure and emotional about the slightest things and I'd end up spend most of my time assuring him all was well. though I still like him to this day, I think I'm better off with my own age or older. less chance of dealing with emotional immaturity :)

heavensgift2girls · Answer

I have dated older women before, and they have a problem respecting a younger man as a equal. Also women often see a difference of interest, as a sign of immaturity even though, having a different interest has nothing to do with maturity. This adds to the disrespect older women show younger men.

I would never consider a woman even slightly older than me again. A relationship can not work without respect.

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

If he was like no more than 3 years younger than me, maybe if he was mature. He'd have to have gotten all his player I wanna f*** every girl in the world out of his system by the time he met me though. So no late bloomers, and guys who were shy and quiet in his youth. He'd have to be a former player who's ready to settle down. I'm not trying to deal with the seven year itch from him

mangaka92 · Answer

I'm not sure why so many people are commenting that they don't care about age. If asked for a show of hands how many people here were dating 80 year olds there probably wouldn't be any hands. Obviously age matters some to people still. It's just that there is a certain range of age differences that they are comfortable with.

Longshot · Answer

If you are talking about a couple of years at the point where you want to get married, it probably won't make a difference to most people. When you start talking about large age differences, more people will say NO because of differences in maturities, lifestlyles, careers, desire for children, etc.

Jay-Man · Answer

I've gone older and younger than me. I suppose if there's love, it really doesn't matter.

Why would you "make it official" though? Marriage is not necessary. I know the Christians among you won't like this but I don't care. My girlfriend is a catholic and I'm atheist.

xzinax2 · Answer

once I'm in my 20's-probably. I'm always a bit freaked out by guys being older OR younger than me even if it's a 1-2 year difference for some reason-so I'd probably avoid relationships like that,but if I did fall in love-sure,as long as he's over 18.

LoveAriel21 · Answer

I wouldn't feel right...I'm not trying to be stereotypical but I'd always imagined the man is older than the woman...just how it seems right when a man should be taller than you :/

NicholasHalden · Answer

Yes I would, if and only if she was 10 or 20 years older then me but below 60. I find them more intelligent then their younger generation.

toulouse · Answer

not getting married, but id date a younger guy. guy I'm with acts like a 6 year old, often. So, I'm getting good practice.. (Obviously id never go below 18, chronologically.)

Shyguy90 · Answer

You people who voted for older women proly want their life insurance lol I wouldn't date an older women. That doesn't fit right with me somehow. I would prefer her to be my age or very near my age.

TheDigitalSaint · Answer

There's going to be zero attraction to a woman older than myself, so the answer is no. Not to mention, if I wanted children, I prefer to have them with a young wife, not an older one.

butterfly_girl · Answer

I've never been with someone younger than me so I can't really say. I tend to be attracted to older guys, something like 5 or so years older than me. I don't think I would marry a younger guy though.

sarcasticbella · Answer

im two years older than my boyfriend, I'm fine with it as long as the gap isn't so big that it makes our differences too great. I wouldn't go more than a few years younger.

ambertaylor · Answer

I would marry a younger man but only by a few years because of maturity levels and I'd feel insecure about him hanging out with younger more youthful looking girls if there was a big age difference.

sugarDIVINE · Answer

yes I would marry a younger guy... because I'm also very young in my brain and I like some one to have fun with... but not too young... but then again older guys are SOOO HOTT

Kearra · Answer

If I love someone I love them older or younger. Maybe a huge difference could put us with different priorities. Love is Love!

EverythingReal · Answer

How much younger? I would not go more than 5 years younger because then experiences and maturity are too different (in my opinion).

ImperfectDVM · Answer

Sure, as long as the statutory law wasn't violated.   x D

AltoonaYourPiano · Answer

Certainly, although I want to have kids someday (I'm 28), so are we talking a smallish age gap like 13 years or a large one like 41 years?

martyfellow · Answer

I learned all about things from an older woman...but marrying her, that would have been silly. Plus, she was married already!

KERMlT · Answer

Oldest woman I was with was 30 years my senior. It was mainly about the sex for me. She was beautiful. :D

throdd · Answer

I LOVE the way that they young women look at me.  They get close to me...like in a store...and seem to dare me to talk to them.  Makes me crazy hot

couchcat · Answer

i have been married to the younger "man" didn't work, he ended up not bein mature enough to handle "responsibilities"

Paramount2play · Answer

lol "age is just a number" If I love the guy age wouldn't really matter.

countrygirl123 · Answer

I would go one year younger and that's about it lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I am 10 years younger than her it was great for a wile she's in great shape but she went through that time of life change now its separate bedrooms no sex and she acts like I am one of her kids!

psm357 · Answer

I will marry an older women depending on the situation.But most likely I won't do so.

DebiPie · Answer

Yep, but not that much younger. Maybe 7-10 years, no more.

Anonymous · Answer

when I was 18, I wanted a 25 yr. old..for her maturity and her sexual desires now that I'm much older, I want a 25 yr. old for her zest for life and her sexual desires...hmmm, funny how that works

MyThoughts · Answer

IHe cannot be no more then 3-5 years younger then me.

acka72 · Answer

Depends on how much younger.  I draw the line on 8 years younger.

NoOneListens21 · Answer

um. I suppose it depends on what age really. I mean sure why not but it all depends on the age.

palek · Answer

I wouldn't marry a younger man, but I might marry an older woman.

Nicefuture · Answer

No, like younger by a year is fine but anything more is just NO.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend is 2 and a half years younger than me. I see no issue with this.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd fine with anything within 5 years.  I tend to like people close to my own age for relationships.

beer3 · Answer

For a long term relationship/ marriage I would prefer someone younger.

epoxyorange · Answer

depending how much younger  but age is all relative in my opinion you can be a teenager for your whole life

Anonymous · Answer

10 to 20 years ago I would of married an older woman but now I would not

LucyLibra · Answer

Yes would definitely go younger and always do - my ex husband was 7 years younger!

Shea25 · Answer

my boyfriend is one year younger than me, :)

DanteSparda · Answer

yeah my girlfriend is two years older than me :)

Anonymous · Answer

I could never marry a man that is younger than me, I have always been attracted to older men so no.

EngEleROCKS · Answer

I am man and I would marry older woman

myspacemybroke · Answer

Marry? No. F***? Yes.

calialltheway1993 · Answer

No, I would never marry a younger man.

RedThread · Answer

I don't care about age.

Xx_DRE_xX · Answer

Maybe by a couple of years.

vertigo1201 · Answer

I wouldn't be comfortable with it, so no.

Reviresco · Answer

Absolutely yes!

dodgersmom11 · Answer

yes for older

sp1213 · Answer

Sure, why not.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't

Anonymous · Answer

I think I would

Anonymous · Answer

Sure

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