The part that he wanted to explain the menu is something guys do lol they like feeling in control of the situation. If you corrct him is like busting their balls. You liked him before you knew so I don't see why it should change. Isn't there medication for bipolar disorders? He prob gets nervous and loses his calm mind when he is under pressure. But then again don't feel sorry for him cause is not fair for both of you guys. I honestly don't see what's the problem if he cares about you and treats you right. And wtf are you comparing yourself with the ex that's never good no matter what situation. Did you meet him and dated him right away? How is it that before you knew you thought he was "average" and know you blame his "disabilities" every time he has an issue with a word. Lol that happens to me where I'll mess up simple words not because I have a problem but because brain fart I guess lol. I would say look pass it and be with him because of his good things. Although if you're asking over here is because your mind it's made up and you want someone to back you up so you don't feel guilty.. If you don't love him then breakup and let both of you to move on.
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Don't feel bad at all! You liked him, and over the course of two months you slowly came to realize that you just aren't a good fit. Someone who seems like they'd be a perfect fit just aren't after you really start getting to know them. You're not being a bitch just because you don't like him. It's not like you had a problem with his disabilities, you just don't get along right and just aren't good fits. That's no one's fault at all. Some people just aren't meant for each other. Instead of giving it another month, I'd cut your loses and try again before you invest any more time, because you know that you won't be with this guy a year from now. If you end it now, you can start with a new guy who could be the perfect fit, instead of missing him by staying in a dead-end relationship.
If you see a future with him, then continue if you don't it's better now then later, His disabilities are something that will change as he grows as human and yourself. Naturally as you grow together it becomes a part of your life.
If you want a future with him then it's worth staying and learning more about him and him you.
I have hidden disabilities that can make annoying but it also a great part of me too.
Love him for who he is. If he's not a complete asshole to you then be with him. Who cares if he has a learning disability. We all are not perfect. Just be in his shoes. If he breaks up with you because of your disability, how would you feel? You would probably hate yourself for fucking up the relationship due to the fact that you have a learning disability. It's not fair for him. At least he's caring.
i wonder if any of the girls he has dated, including you, were hot, cute, pretty, attractive girls
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You guys aren't a good fit. No need to feel bad about it, but you already know it's time to move on. Right now is supposed to be the honeymoon phase. If you are already feeling all of these things, it will not last or get better.
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