im 25 and have been with 4 men ever... the last one was black, it was a one time thing with him and now I feel ruined. I go to a smaller college and I was casually dating a white guy (no sex) and the convo of "how many people" came up.. his second question was "any black guys?". I wanted to be honest because I liked him but I could tell it upset him. And of course he didn't want to see me again. Word got around and a guy I was messaging as friends asked me and that ended. A man I was talking to on a dating site asked me and he abruptly stopped talking to me.
Should I lie about it? It was a stupid thing to do I can see it in the eyes of these guys that I'm not girlfriend material because of it. I hate lying and I would feel so guilty if I lied. Believe me I have considered it. I feel like its ruined my dating life. I can't even talk to my friends about it.
Any girls been in a similar situation? What can I do? I don't understand why some white guys don't want to date a white woman who has been with a black man like they are men just the same as you y,know so what the hell is the big deal boys will be boys I don't understand :/?
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The question I'd like you to ask yourself is, "Do I really want to date those racist white d***s?" That would be appropriate.4