I told my friend about this. She said her boyfriend (which is now her husband) used the push-pull strategy where he would show her tons of interest then go missing then come back and make her feel special and pull away again. This was the first time I was hearing of such a thing. I didn't know guys played such "games".
I am not sure if this guy is doing that strategy or just showing his disinterest. I would feel stupid if he was just showing disinterest and I mistook it for him trying to get me more interested. Am I making sense? lol
How do I know if he is infact interested without seeming needy/desperate? I am the kind of person who doesn't like to play games. If you're into me, then great. If you're not then lets move on already!
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