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Polls: Dating

Why don't men care when they're objectified?

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Yes it’s good because it’s showing affection
No it’s weird
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Yes
No
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Is 15 years too much of an age gap?

I’m 35 and the man I like is 50. Is this age gap too much? I’ve never dated anyone older than me before. He’s only a few years younger than my parents, so I didn’t know if this would seem weird. What do you think?
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I’m 35 and the man I like is 50. Is this age gap too much? I’ve never dated anyone older than me before. He’s only a few years younger than my parents, so I didn’t know if this would seem weird. What do you think?
Yes, it’s too much
No, it’s fine
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Do you carry too much baggage to have a healthy relationship?

Are there things in your past that you are having a hard time moving on from? ... or is everything hunky-dory for you?
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Are there things in your past that you are having a hard time moving on from? ... or is everything hunky-dory for you? Show More
Yes, I most definitely have issues from my past and I am not sure what to do about it
Yes, I have issues, but I think it is somewhat manageable
No, I think I am ok, as my past issues are not insurmountable
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Baggage" Survey
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I had to comfort a guy crying over his mum, I knew him for a week, is this a red flag?

M26 F28 . I met him online. Knew him for a week , within the week, the first time we met we established we were obviously attracted to each other and made out, it was fun, hot, all that. Then I met up with him 2 days...
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M26 F28 . I met him online. Knew him for a week , within the week, the first time we met we established we were obviously attracted to each other and made out, it was fun, hot, all Show More
Yes
No
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Guys, are cute girls attractive?

My friends often say I'm "kawaii", "cute", "adorable" and have a "childlike/girlish" attitude. Also people (specially older people) describe me with diminutive words despite me being 16 and people often take care of me or...
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My friends often say I'm "kawaii", "cute", "adorable" and have a "childlike/girlish" attitude. Also people (specially older people) describe me with diminutive words despite me being Show More
yes, it's attractive
no, it's a turnoff for me
other
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How much effort do you put into dating & what was the outcome?

Meeting people in person, through apps, speed dating etc
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Meeting people in person, through apps, speed dating etc
A lot & I’ve been successful
A lot & I haven’t been successful
Some & I’ve been successful
Some & I haven’t been successful
None & I’ve been successful
None & I haven't been successful
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I choose less attractive friends
I’m friends with all nice people
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My friend is dating a really cute guy and I am jealous. Is that normal for me to be jealous?

When i found out she was dating him, the first thing that came to my mind was “if I am prettier than her then why did he pick her over me?“ I know it’s really bad and wrong. But that is how I feel no lies or...
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When i found out she was dating him, the first thing that came to my mind was “if I am prettier than her then why did he pick her over me?“ I know it’s really bad and wrong. But Show More
Yah
Nah
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Do you think dating is hard?

I think it is and this is coming from a woman. Usually we’re known to have it easier but maybe I’m just not attractive enough for the guys
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I think it is and this is coming from a woman. Usually we’re known to have it easier but maybe I’m just not attractive enough for the guys
Yes
No
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I’m 5’7, he’s 5’5
YES
No, not really
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Yeah, I don't see why not
I would prefer not to for certain reasons
I'm currently dating/married to a cop
It depends on things
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Do guys care about dating “leagues” more than women do?

I’ve noticed that every time I hear this topic being talked about, it’s always a guy saying it. Like that people shouldn’t date if they’re not in the same league.
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I’ve noticed that every time I hear this topic being talked about, it’s always a guy saying it. Like that people shouldn’t date if they’re not in the same league. Show More
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No
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Would you accept an apology from your high school bully two years later?

There was this girl I used to bully really bad in high school. I would make fun of her freckles and I would also make fun of her big forehead and glasses. I would push her and make fun of her because I was dating her...
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There was this girl I used to bully really bad in high school. I would make fun of her freckles and I would also make fun of her big forehead and glasses. I would push her and make fun Show More
Yes, tell her sorry.
Hell no, I wouldn’t forgive you
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Lighter skin
Media promotion of them as cooler dating options
Others
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If you had to choose yes or no; is he likely a gold digger?

30 year old guy grows up in richest town in America. All his friends are from multi-million dollar families. He was unable to do rich things like vacations with his friends due to being middle class. He did not finish...
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30 year old guy grows up in richest town in America. All his friends are from multi-million dollar families. He was unable to do rich things like vacations with his friends due to Show More
No
Yes
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Is it rude to say "I don't want to waste my time" when going on a first date?

A guy I met on tinder asked me what I'm looking for, I told him basically I'm going with the flow, be responded "same but I don't want to waste my time". We're going on a date tonight, first time meeting him. Obviously,...
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A guy I met on tinder asked me what I'm looking for, I told him basically I'm going with the flow, be responded "same but I don't want to waste my time". We're going on a date tonight, Show More
Yes
No
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Yes
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