Questions: Dating

2 months ago, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs on first meet up. We were in contact via Instagram messages. Then we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see a movie. The day before movie I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. On day of movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on first meet up , I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on (there’s nothing wrong with that but he was obnoxious in my opinion). He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. When I spoke with him on the phone the day before movie, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but right after movie he sent a message saying that he “wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him”. Tbh I was planning on letting him know I wasn’t interested whenever he would’ve reached out to me again. Flash fwd to a month ago, he sends me a dm with an inside joke, I just left him on read again. He continued to follow me on social media but unmatched with me from the dating app we met through, I unfollowed him from IG. And then after a while he finally unfollows on IG

I've been on three dates recently, one of the guys said via message after the date which said "Sorry, your ruined", one guy told me he thinks I'll cheat (I've never cheated and how he can tell that from a date I have no idea) and the last guy got up, went to the toilet and never came back!

So yeah, do you white guys have an issue with dating women that have been with black guys for some reason? I personally don't have a preference, I go for personality but it seems white guys don't date black girls or girls that have been with black guys.

I'm wondering if you feel bad because you feel friendzoned or maybe you feel good that you have a good friend.

I'm not talking about situations like where a heterosexual woman has a gay best friend. I'm talking about between 2 opposite gender heterosexuals or 2 same gender homosexuals.