Questions: Dating

So to me it’s not a big deal because people typically spend a couple of hours together once a week when they date, and in this case rather than say three hours once a week you can spend 3-12 hours for one day a month. The numbers can be basically the same but I know frequency can be important to some people.

Now when I say once a month, I don’t mean that you can only strictly spend time together once a month, just that the intentional time spending would be once a month and then if you run into each other at other times, that’s fine.

I see mixed opinions on this; obviously, there won't be the same answer for everyone. But if your girlfriend or wife bought you some flowers, would it be weird to you? Like for an anniversary, or to congratulate you on winning something, or just to show appreciation, etc.