Questions: Dating

I mean why I gotta pay for what🧐

For myself, I prefer once a month for a minimum of 3 hours. Once a month leaves enough time in between for life to carry on as usual and gives time to look forward to meeting while having space to put it in the back ground when need be.

I can’t handle meeting up very week or even more, it’s just too much. I need time to recover from the adrenaline spike of being around someone I like 😮‍💨

I’m not good at switching gears, so having space in between gives time adjustment advantage to help me be “present” during the meet ups..

and the 3 hour rule is for the same. If it takes me a half hour to settle in and a half hour to get ready to leave and we’re only meeting for an hour, it’s pointless.

Also a you figure if you’re meeting once a month and it still feels arduous, you know you’re not really interested.

It is not that I refuse to see someone more often, it’s just my preference and I didn’t mind if it’s less often as long as the time together is genuine 🙂