myTakes: Dating

I just came out of a crazy 2 year relationship. The craziest part? How I didn't see it coming! The biased advice, the strong criticism, the eye rolls and the whispers- YES, those were the best friends that ruined my...

Be honest with yourself and your date. Breathe. Have fun. Sounds super generic right and like the most obvious things, and I'm sure plenty of Takes about this already, but here's MINE. Most people on first dates are...

This is more about texting and emoji moments than usual dating world.... OK so you meet a guy and you start getting to know him and there is a lot of contact in the beginning, we all get this right? Normal texts when you...

More than once (once most recently) I have been accused of not dating someone because I didn't think they were in my league, which was not the case. A lot of guys seem to think that if a girl rejects them it's because she...

I'm writing this myTake to debunk the myth that women are incomplete without a partner, remove the rose-tinted glasses that many people wear when they think about relationships and to offer practical advice on enjoying...

There seem to be a few posts about what girls find physically attractive in guys (I've wrote one myself) but I'd like to tell you what I like in a guys personality. 1) Kindness There is nothing hotter than a guy who is...

When we were young children each and every experience was new to us and crucial in our development. If not for the information we learned early on from our loved ones, peers and teachers, we'd be at an extreme...

It frustrates me sometimes when I hear both guys and girls talk about themselves as if they are nobodies in the dating world because they haven't been successful in the dating pool. It's frustrating, it is, but on the...

Earrings Whether it be a long one like above or a diamond I find it really attractive. Tattoos On ~particular~ guys, tattoos are gorgeous and I love it. Nice Hair Guys, if you think your hair isn't important, please...

So you're a 20 something, supermodel looking, broke as hell college student looking around at her one room studio apartment which you're about to get kicked out of due to failure to pay your rent and you've decided that...

San Francisco resident Sebastian Stadil is purported to be 'the' most unlucky man on the dating app site, Tinder. Stadil, a software engineer, decided that rather than swipe right himself on potential dates, he would...

This is what I'd call a 'follow up' from my previous mytake, Man As Initiator which, not surprisingly, got mixed reactions :D . Not only that, I had a certain GaGer create a rebuttal [replica with a few adjustments] to...

I used to laugh when my friends said "oh girls love the guys that are assholes to them"... I watched them chase the guys that weren't worth it. I watched them cry over boys that weren't men... And I didn't get it? I mean,...

For all of the ignorant males on this post who asked me what I do like. 1) Happiness A guy who's very chill and just likes having a good time with his friends, is awesome. I can't stand guys who try to put on a moody...

Inspired by this post about 10 weird things that turn the poster on. 1) Awkwardness I know some people find a guys awkwardness cute, but it can get pretty uncomfortable and mutual comfort is just attractive to me. 2)...