I think the reason why women have ruined the dating and relationships is because most women today choose bad men over good men. Have a read of what this woman said. Of course, she doesn't speak for ALL women, but it does seem that women like this are the general rule. This is what she said:
I know this might be hard for a lot of good guys to understand, but the classic saying about women loving jerks is true in a lot of cases. Sometimes it’s not even on purpose. There’s just some primal force that attracts us to dudes that are bad for us, no matter how hard we try to find Mr. Right. You would imagine most girls grow out of this after high school, but I know tons of women who suffer from the same poor judgement as adults. As someone that’s been romantically involved with both types, hopefully I can help you understand what causes girls to go crazy for assholes and why nice guys always seem to finish last.
Women are complex creatures, and even though we say we want peace and happiness, our inner drama queen requires more intensity. It’s ironic because marital bliss is what we’re supposed to be looking for in relationships, but then we get there and become so bored we’re forced to create problems just to feel like the flame’s still burning. Sure, a guy who cuddles you to sleep every night and runs to the store to buy you ice cream when you have cramps is amazing, but is that what makes a woman's panties wet? Unfortunately not. Those types of gestures get a girl’s heart pounding at first, but like all things, they lose their luster after a little while, and the more time passes, the more some women overlook those efforts because they’ve grown to expect them. Once the relationship becomes mundane and routine like that, it’s only natural that one party might lose interest. If you don’t try to keep her guessing, she may just wander off looking for some fresh, exciting meat.
So there you have it. This is the cruel reality of the real world. The thing that annoys me is that we hear a lot about men treating women badly. And it's true. A lot of men do treat women badly. But the reason women lose the moral high ground is because time and time again they deliberately reject good men and choose the bad men, mainly for the excitement. Do women not understand or care that they are the ones creating most of the anger and bitterness in men?
One more thing: A very common thing I hear these days from women is "Nice guys aren't really nice, they just pretend to be nice." This makes no sense at all. I'm not talking about the fake nice guys, I'm talking about the genuine nice guys being rejected and women choosing or staying with men whom they know are assholes. So again, I'm not talking about the fake nice guys, I'm talking about women who deliberately reject good men and choose the bad ones.
Despite having it shoved down my throat my entire life that I ,as a man, should respect women, I find it almost impossible to respect women these days. I don't know what the future holds for relationships in the future, but it looks very grim. I just can't see any hope. Maybe there is God in heaven that will one day bring us all justice. If not, I can't see a bright future.
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