Could my teacher be my real father?

[BornToDiee]

My former literature teacher was one of the best people I've ever seen in my life. I haven't seen him for 3 years, but I'm going to see him in 1 month. I really loved him very much, and he was also very interested in me. I looked a lot like my teacher. I've never seen another person who looks so much like me in my life, except for my lover. I'll tell him that too when I see him again. I will tell him that I love him just like my father. He is a very emotional person, just like me. And I'm writing novels, I'm writing poems. He is also a literature teacher. My interest things and his interest things are the same. And in class, my teacher would talk about his childhood, and his childhood is very similar to my childhood. His perspective on life is incredibly the same as mine. And I've been missing that teacher a lot for 3 years. For some reason I would even like to introduce my boyfriend to that teacher of mine. Because I'm sure it would make him very happy to see that I'm happy. My feelings are really strong. A lot of things I've felt in my life before have turned out to be true. Maybe everything is as I thought about it.

[msc545]

I really am adopted and I know that for sure. The way you can find out is by doing a DNA test of yourself and of your mother if possible. If it's not possible to include your mother then certainly you shouldn't include your father again if possible. If it's not possible to include either parent because they won't cooperate than that in and of itself become suspicious. There may be ways of secretly collecting a sample anyway, but I'm not sure what they are and you would need to do some research on this.

Keep in mind that you have an absolute right to know whether or not you are adopted and who your parents really are. This is a human, right and the sun extend it may be a legal right as well but you would have to ask an attorney about this.

If all else fails, you could get a DNA kit from ancestry or 23andMe and run that through their systems and see what you come up with. If what your parents have told you about your ancestry and about your grandparents is greatly at variance at what the DNA test will tell you. I would say that is reasonable cause to be extremely suspicious and you shouldn't investigate further.

I'm an advocate for full disclosure of ancestry information to adoptees under virtually all circumstances for all people. You have rights in this situation. Please DM me if I can help you in any way or you need more information.

[dreamstar72]

Highly unlikely, to rare of a coincidence, due to your age. So I take the teacher was at least 40, likely married. Maybe you should see if he could give you some tips and advice on writing on college courses. Still go for the dna test routine. Good luck you deserve the better.

[Agape93]

No idea. But you decide who your family is to you. If you want him as a dad, then treat him as you would a dad.

[ohsheeT]

I know this questions from a year ago but I felt the need to answer it

Growing up I learned that my step dad was my step dad when I was 5 years old it kind of broke my heart

From that moment on every guy that I saw I would look at them and wonder if they were my dad because I always wanted to know who I was

In doing this I got to where I could read people in an instant I could tell you what they were going to do their next move what they would say their next words when communicating

But it took me 27 years to meet my real dad..

Not in a bad way but instead of finding out who I was I found out who I didn't want to be..

I don't mean that in a negative way it's a positive way.
And after all this I have realized that I'm just me and that I like me and that's the only person I could be.

I don't know if you have parents in your life or who's in your life but remember this you always have yourself and you are the best there are things about you that nobody knows you have talents that nobody knows you are kind like nobody else knows you are wise like nobody else knows you are a giver like nobody else knows you have a beautiful heart like nobody else knows and you have to love yourself like nobody has loved you before because you're worth it and you are an asset to this world and to your friends and to your other family and to yourself

[BornToDiee]

I really love my literature teacher because he has a very close soul to me. But I don't need to have a blood relation with my literature teacher to love him. Since I love my literature teacher very much, in the past I used to think "I wish this teacher was my father." And seeing my literature teacher sad most of the time makes me sad. My literature teacher probably lost his wife or child in the past because his looks are very emotional and seeing that teacher sad and even thinking that I didn't make that teacher feel good makes me feel bad. But I know that love is much stronger than blood ties. Thank you for your comment. I hope you live the life you want. Of course, a person should care about himself first in life.

[ohsheeT]

You are 100% right and what you have to understand about you is that you are very special person that feeling that you feel is energy it's your energy and it can touch our touched and when this happens it changes who you Are and you will feel one of the most beautiful things you've ever felt before in life.

This happens there becomes clarity and meaning and understanding

[DiegoO]

Um, a father and mother is who raise you. Family is who loves and therefore: accepts you. Been so, he may be your biological father, but it doesn't matter if he never cared to even know if you're his daughter.

[Grovermint]

Could get a DNA test to check. Just because you're alike in many ways and your feelings towards him are amicable, doesn't mean anything in terms of genetics.

[Anonymous]

He could be your daddy. Wait for him after school and wear nothing under a long trench coat then drop it in front of him

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Possibly get DNA testing done and see what it gives you.

[Wise4myage]

You would have to get a DNA test.