I really am adopted and I know that for sure. The way you can find out is by doing a DNA test of yourself and of your mother if possible. If it's not possible to include your mother then certainly you shouldn't include your father again if possible. If it's not possible to include either parent because they won't cooperate than that in and of itself become suspicious. There may be ways of secretly collecting a sample anyway, but I'm not sure what they are and you would need to do some research on this.
Keep in mind that you have an absolute right to know whether or not you are adopted and who your parents really are. This is a human, right and the sun extend it may be a legal right as well but you would have to ask an attorney about this.
If all else fails, you could get a DNA kit from ancestry or 23andMe and run that through their systems and see what you come up with. If what your parents have told you about your ancestry and about your grandparents is greatly at variance at what the DNA test will tell you. I would say that is reasonable cause to be extremely suspicious and you shouldn't investigate further.
I'm an advocate for full disclosure of ancestry information to adoptees under virtually all circumstances for all people. You have rights in this situation. Please DM me if I can help you in any way or you need more information.
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Highly unlikely, to rare of a coincidence, due to your age. So I take the teacher was at least 40, likely married. Maybe you should see if he could give you some tips and advice on writing on college courses. Still go for the dna test routine. Good luck you deserve the better.
No idea. But you decide who your family is to you. If you want him as a dad, then treat him as you would a dad.
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Um, a father and mother is who raise you. Family is who loves and therefore: accepts you. Been so, he may be your biological father, but it doesn't matter if he never cared to even know if you're his daughter.
Could get a DNA test to check. Just because you're alike in many ways and your feelings towards him are amicable, doesn't mean anything in terms of genetics.
Possibly get DNA testing done and see what it gives you.
He could be your daddy. Wait for him after school and wear nothing under a long trench coat then drop it in front of him
You would have to get a DNA test.
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