How can I know that I am adopted?

[BornToDiee]

My parents always make me feel bad. My whole life they are stealing my energy. They always upset me and they always expect me to apologize. My character is never like them. People who spend most of their time together are usually similar to each other. But I'm not like them. I can never be like them. Perhaps the children may have been blend during childbirth. I don't want to admit that my family is my real family. My sister treats me badly, my brother treats me badly, my parents treat me badly. because I don't look like them. My family is the angelic-looking devil. I can't stand this family anymore. I'm drowning. My family can't be my real family... I need to take a DNA test.
There is a teacher at my old school that I love more than I've ever loved in my life, and he really looked a lot like me. I wish your teacher was my real father. He was really very interested in me and was a wonderful person.

[Beautyblossom2]

Ok funny story.. I had a friend she once told me that she resembles in her father's brother's wife a lot (man I don't know what u call that relation in Eng😓) like people tell her that a lot..
I obv didn't think much n said "yeah it's ok.. Even i resemble in my paternal aunt a lot, n more to both my parents than my brother. So don't worry much" She was sad n annoyed..
But then ONCE.. we were making inheritance charts so we're discussing blood gps.. I explained her the gene inheritance in my family.. N asked hers.. She said she's AB , her father is B -, and her mother... well... O negative! ☠️ (in a split millisecond i was internally like... But ofc I hid it well n externally didn't show any reaction) but woah...
So I think simple blood group, in v few cases, can also help

[Beautyblossom2]

AB +

[RavVid]

I think parents get you by nature and nurture. That is your personality is part genetics and part upbringing. It is not impossible that you are just the odd girl out in your family but I see you are 20 and married so if you are adopted than you are old enough to handle it.

I don't know if you can go to any adoption body but getting your birth certificate would be a first step and understanding if changes are made to it on adoption. What does your husband think? You are making your life with him so he is your family now. He might be better able to handle this better than you can as he is one step removed. Lean on him I would suggest to get them to be better to you. You are an adult and they should treat you as one - not a naughty child.

With a DNA test you would need your parents to participate and that might be unlikely.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Have you tried to find work and get your place I mean judging from the age underneath your username you look like you are now a legal adult.

[sheikalana]

Adoptive parents are usually very loving, caring and very sweet to their children. You don't write like an adopted kid at all but if you still have your doubts you can always do a DNA test.

[BornToDiee]

Maybe the children were mixed up in the hospital.😕

[sheikalana]

Your imagination is wild. You're making up too many stories now.

[BornToDiee]

Maybe..

[dreamstar72]

Go with a dna test you are old enough, might get lucky. Revenge is nice for those who do us wrong.

[RealMarek]

As the saying goes, adopted or not we don’t pick our family.

[Anonymous]

You might have to hire a private investigator.

[Sub_Girl]

DNA test!

[jahaims]

DNA test obviously