Am I in the wrong?

[Anonymous]

I struggle with feelings of rejection and insecurity on a very deep level and I started a new job as a teacher and I stopped taking my meds… everything was going fine until I started to become attracted to a male coworker. Me and my coworker are cool and we became close very fast… she wanted to know about me and she was telling me to go to church with her ect…. I think she’s a very nice person but I ended up telling her that I have bipolar disorder and I regret that… her mom has bipolar disorder. She talked about her struggle

I was really attracted to this guy at our job and he works next door. We went to the same college and we are both from the same state… I thought we would have been cool by now but I guess he doesn’t want me to think anything

So I think my coworker tried to tell me that she liked him and for some reason my emotions got the best of me… I told her I just wanted to keep things professional in a nice way… and the next day she asked what were things I didn’t want to do and if I wanted to still go on the trip and I said I would think about it but I really didn’t want to…

I hate I went out with her yesterday to get ice cream I wish I just kept it professional. Now my thinking is becoming irrational and I told her again that I didn’t want to be in between them… I have issues with jealousy.. so I’d rather just be cordial

Both female coworkers blocked me on social media so now I’m definitely alone.

[Anonymous]

I think Advisor Smith explained it quite well.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

Navigating emotions in a new work environment can be challenging, especially with underlying mental health considerations. Remember that it's okay to feel vulnerable and to seek support when needed. First, consider speaking with a mental health professional to discuss your situation and feelings about stopping your medication. Transparency with trusted professionals can provide clarity and guidance. Social dynamics can be complex, but focusing on professionalism, self-care, and your well-being can create a supportive work environment. Give yourself permission to learn from this experience, and prioritize healing and understanding your emotions. You’re not alone, and professional support can be invaluable.

[Anonymous]

So your friends likes your crush? Why?

[Asker]

Yes , but it’s fine. He’s not attracted to me.

[Asker]

And I’m going to tell him not to feel obligated to talk to me

[Opinion Owner]

Why is he not attracted to u? How can u be so sure

[Asker]

Because of how he acts… seems hot and cold.. he seems to be more open with my coworker so..

[Opinion Owner]

That means he’s being friendly

[Asker]

To her yes.. but if he’s not really trying to connect with me after I was nice to him then no he’s not interested.. we have a lot in common too but he’s not interested so.. if he’s more comfortable talking to her and talks to her then there probably is mutual interest between them.