Anyone here 30+ years old and a NEET?

[IHaveRespawned]

I am 31 years old, a newlywed, and I am partially a NEET.

NEET = Not in Education, Employment, or Training

When I mean "partially", I have been picking up occasional small, project-based gigs. Although, I am not employed and have been unable to hold down stable work my entire life. I am currently on disability benefits (SSDI) and I am on a fixed, restricted income. I am hesistant to try working again because the government has attempted to remove my disability benefits and Medicare (gov health insurance) due to trying to reenter the workforce and failing. I have held 25 jobs since age 15 and have been fired half of them (others close to being fired/quitting to avoid termination). I must protect my one and only health insurance by all means, because it can potentially be a public safety risk without it. I need adequate mental health care.

My most recent full time job I was fired from in July 2024. I only lasted 9 months. I have also had to leave career pursuits twice now. First, I was an EMT and had my license essentially revoked. Then, I transitioned into tech as a software engineer and the tech job market was essentially destroyed. Now, I am in a slump as to what I would want to pursue next, if I am even capable of holding down work.

Me

Not me, but I know some

Not me and I don't know anyone else being a NEET

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[AI Opinion]

Balancing health needs with career aspirations can be delicate. Exploring part-time or freelance opportunities may offer flexibility and stability without impacting your benefits. Consider roles leveraging your existing skills or interests, perhaps in remote work. Engage in activities that can boost your confidence and skills gradually, like volunteering or learning new skills online, which might eventually lead to more stable opportunities. Remember, your health is paramount, so maintain a balance that prioritizes well-being while exploring new career possibilities. Transitioning slowly allows you to test your readiness and avoid abrupt changes affecting your support system.

[Cidknee]

Congratulations on the marriage. Kiss the bride for me.

[IHaveRespawned]

Lol thanks

[Anonymous]

Why do you get fired or lose your job so much?

[IHaveRespawned]

I say there are numerous reasons... poor interpersonal skills, being very particular in my approaches, seeking reassurance and leaning on colleagues too much/second-guessing myself, personal issues outside the workplace (mental and physical health issues, sleep problems, etc...)