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Good take but I dont think your dad would see this message for him unless of course he's a gagger too.
It was more of a way to express myself than anything else. I've contemplated posting it for him to see but I don't really know if it's worth it
This is awful. I just want to hug you😥
I'm so sorry you've had these experiences. Just try to know not all men are like him and you'll find one who cherishes you every
Day☮💟😊
Not just father. Family on father side. I feel like I've got no one else but my mom :( I feel like I didn't have a family in the first place.
But you know what, i don't hate them. I'm grateful that i have others in my family to call family <3 you DON't have to have a dad. Your mom is both. Let go of the past. Accept what happened. Because it happened because it made you stronger not weaker. So don't hold grudges. I'm not religious but unforgiving is like a sin. Just forgive and move on. You don't have to do it in person but let go of that guilt you're holding on to.
He was right that buggery was bad and there is a Hell. A pity he was a sleazebag himself; but truth remains and does not care how flawed the messenger is.
When my dad got border line abusive.
I kicked him through the wall.
Now he stopped.
*internet hug*
ssrly? More people should do that.
@SovereignessofVamps
That's also about 10 years of martial art training that my mom emphasized.
My dad is an ok person, but him being a type 2 diabetic, taking an ungodly amount of pills and insulin shots and untop of work stress caused him to act that way.
When I finally fought back it served as a reality check to him most likely
so he nvr crossed the line again?
@SovereignessofVamps
Nope.
Never again.
I went off to college and my mom told me that he started acting differently, and I see it now too. This was about 5 years ago, almost 6 actually
well that's great then! Good for you guys. show's there's no excuse for that.
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Thanks :)
This should be featured. Wow.
Thank you <3 :)
Oh, I'm pretty sure it will be tonight. :)
That was powerful. The way he treated you makes me sick. I'm so sorry. **hugs** Know that not all men are like him and never forget how strong you are.
I'm one of these lucky persons that have a really good father and I'm grateful for that.
I know your pain. My dad was abusive to me and my mother too.
So when my little brother was born my mother decided to leave him and live on our own.
I give you credit for not going anon. I don't have time to read it at the moment but im curious if your father has read this?
I got emotional reading this.
I completely relate to 1,3,4,5,6,7,8.
Chin up. If you don't let it kill you, you will emerge stronger.
I am sorry if you had to go through this, however, my dad treated me pretty much similar. But, you have to forgive in order to heal. You cannot move on from the past if you do not forgive. Forgiveness is the key to happiness. Don't hold grudges, it's bad for you.
Are you happy holding onto all of this weight from the past?
Wow. Your dad was clearly terrible at being catholic.
I feel you on #7 my family did this to me. I will never forgive my dad for failing me. He was around for the most part, and he provided. However, he had other children who he spent more time with.
Listen, I have an abusive father too. I couldn't forgive him.
But when I did, I promise you. Forgiving him will make YOU stronger. It will free you.
Forgive your father. I am NOT telling you to go back to him. I am not saying you should speak to him, but get rid of your anger. It will help.
I'm sorry you had to go through all of this, I truly am.
I can't really relate to that, but be glad you're a survivor. So brave to put this up.
My dad was not like this and neither was I to my kids , I feel really bad you went through that
That sucks. I have good parents. I help a good friend out, because her father is an asshole Republican that treats her terrible, because she's a lesbian. Never talk to your father. He's someone that you do not need in your life.
He is guilty of number 1 and yep I can never forgive him for that...