100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind (Page 2)
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"2. I am broke and have no money"
So you are planning on staying broke? Good life plan.
I never said so.
There's nothing wrong with wanting kids if you don't want them.
In fact I applaud you. There are some people out there who have kids, who don't want them.
I have to agree, it is much worse to bring someone into existence into this world and then abandon or abuse them. But that does happen for those that had kids and didn't want them and in those cases they are probably unplanned for pregnancies or accidental pregnancies. completely irresponsible and reckless for not properly apply and using proper birth control preventative measures. Both parties involved in the sexual activity are to blame otherwise they should have completely avoided intercourse and only had oral sex, anal sex, or anything else instead that won't result in unplanned or accidental pregnancies.
On a curious kinda way , just think what would happen if all men agreed to do this at the same time !!
Yay human extinction 😀
Actually that still isn't enough to render us all extinct, the government could step in and make it mandatory for those that are health enough to donate sperm. There's also sperm banks.
But if it was some outside force that is able to render and cause all humans to become infertile, such as permanently nullifying all human reproductive cells then that's a guaranteed and eventual extinction. Such as a very contagious pathogen or virus of some kind that is potent and is capable of doing such.
That's totally fine. I don't see anything with not wanting kids. Raising human beings isn't for some people. As for me, I plan on having 5 kids. I want to be surrounded by my children and I want to raise them to be healthy adults.
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It's your own personel choice bro. Nobody is holding a gun to your head saying and forcing you to have kids lol.
Don't reproduce if you don't want it now.
Later, who knows about later?
Swallowing the "Red Pill" and going MGTOW is really resonating with males these day and is gaining momentum as fast as feminism did.
I'm not part of that. Me and @Unit1 we're moreso single for lifers. Though I'm more of an anti-natalist and question how the fuck exactly is it fair to bring somebody into this world and expose them to harm, pain, and suffering and then have to inevitably die some day? You tell me, how exactly is it fair? And if it really isn't fair? Then why the fuck even bother to do it all? Why is it even justified? Oh yea sure, if everybody thought the way we did the world would die and fucking end, humanity would become extinct, but that's ridiculous argument and the truth is that not everybody think and feel that same way, only some of us do, and two, there are many other existential risks that could end humanity and we have MORE THAN enough people on this planet that we won't go extinct any time soon.
it's just that some of us find this whole discrimination thing from people that expect us to "oblige" to procreating to be absurd af.
you have to be rich to have kids, this is one reason more..
more like you either are really fucking optimistic and is a big time risk taker and is willing to or can overlook all of the miseries, pain, hardships, illnesses or diseases, suffering, etc., and the dreaded inevitable thing called death that comes with this kind of a world.
OR that you are reckless or inconsiderate of what the consequences are, that's why accidental pregnancies happen, such as not properly using birth control, resulting in unplanned for pregnancies, or when two people got drunk and waster or got high on some drugs and did their thing and a life is conceived BECAUSE of their recklessness and mistake.
People that are pessimistic, nihilistic, or those that don't ever want to take risks and is unwilling to ever take risks simply are never gonna bother putting themselves in that kind of situation. They just call it quits on ever becoming parents and will absolutely do whatever it takes to ensure they don't ever "accidentally" become parents.
Wow you seem like a really fulfilled and happy person.
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Optimists are more deluded and always belief and think that absolutely nothing can go wrong or can ever go wrong and that everything is going to be fine and dandy and ok or go according to plan or to the script.
I agree, unless you are making six figure income, kids are going to financially ruin your life..
Yeah. That makes sense.
And in the end we ruin the environment because of that money.
I mostly just think it's more than i want to handle life stressful enough already
I enjoyed this. I can't have kids because I have an alcohol problem.
Sorry to hear that. Best of luck with it.
Nice MyTake. I start to like this idea too.
That's certainly a lot of reasons, but a lot can change over the years, in terms of your perspective.
Don't rule it out.
1 reason i'm having kids
1. I want kids :3
you want what you want, it's your life. Those that are different don't want the same exact things as you though.
i better have children no way im going through these periods and not have any hecks naw son
Amen to that, brother.
But kids are too cute
I don't find children cute at all. They're just ordinary and nothing special with them. Just regular human beings.
Can you please tell me where the question that I will answer 😂
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Agreed. This is why I'm never having kids.
@Tinet Which ones specifically? All of them. The financial reasons. Or the more pessimistic philosophical perspectives, such as antinatalism? It seemed most people refused to have them unless they know they can afford and provide well and good lives for their future offspring, some are on the fence and holding back because they aren't financially ready for those responsibilities. But if you are deep and think deep then you'd be not having them for antinatalistic reasons.