A lot of the time, it isn't anything to do with me not actually being angry but rather that I can't be bothered to go to the effort of having a dispute and argue with people which could even result in physical fights.
A lot of people around me in my college and outside of my college have said when they first met me, they were worried about talking to me because they thought my glare was because I was angry when actually it was because my eyes are sensitive to sunlight.
When someone tries to purposefully get into an argument with me, it often takes a lot to make me aggressive but only because I have to have enough energy and motivation to really show my emotions, otherwise I just think to myself "What's the point?" which is entirely true, either the other people won't notice or they will get huffy from me retaliating so why waste energy on a lost cause?
I don't mean to say you shouldn't open up to people, I simply mean if someone says something that gets on your nerves, you have to have the right amount of energy to actually be bothered to talk about the subject in a enthusiastic manner.
I mean, lets look at it like this way:
If someone came and said to you in a serious tone and said they enjoyed the idea of killing young animals, I personally would be disturbed but I would not be taken seriously if I said in a monotone voice "Well that's wrong and you shouldn't find it satisfying" because you don't sound like you mean it and as such you would have lost the argument before you even spoke.
Only continue a dispute if you feel energetic enough and enthusiastic to do so, consequently I rarely have any energy which is why I can't be bothered to argue with others, in fact when someone tries to argue against something I say, my go to words are always-
"That's a shame, it's almost like you have a different mind set to mine"
"Well, you don't have to agree if that soothes your anger"
"But that's your opinion"
"I'm not going to argue about it"
"Is that so? I still don't agree though, sorry"
But I prefer closed quotes, ones where someone can't reply to the word I say but oh well, just makes for less arguments in my experience anyways.
Thank you for reading as always and stay classy! <3