Why does he have such an effect on me?

[Anonymous]

My best friend is distancing himself from me. He's just tired of being friends with me. I haven't been able to stop crying for months.

I try to move on, and I am busy all day. I have other friends. He was just the one that completed me.

When my boyfriend broke up with me, I cried for one night.

But him... I'm dead. Some nights I cry so hard I get a nosebleed.

I love him so much, and it hurts so badly. Last time I felt like this was when a friend of mine died.

I try to give him space, and I collapse after three months. I just miss him. I have been dating, hanging out with other friends, working 50-60 hours a week, and sometimes he's off my mind, but then I get hit so hard later when I have spare time with tears.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I had a female friend who did the same exact thing to me
i was there all the time for her i wasn't talking much on this
website we go on together but she listen to to lies this guy
made up about me so it ended our friendship so i haven't
been on the website she goes on for quite sometime so
but i feel bad for you i know the hurt your feeling i hope
things get better for you ;) *Hugs*

[Asker]

Thanks

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Sounds like you really love this guy but may have scared him way
of some sort of another but it sucks to lose a friend /crush maybe
I'm not getting all this too

[Asker]

Scared him away? It's been three years.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're Welcome:) I tried helping to figure
what could went wrong with her situation
hope it gets better for you

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Oh three years wow sorry

[Asker]

yea..

[Anonymous]

Wait you love him as in romantic interest or just a friend? And why did he leave?

[Asker]

I don't know in what way. I just know I love him, and not having him in my life hurts. Because I am making him mad. He admitted that things that normally wouldn't upset him, upset him coming from me.

[Opinion Owner]

Umm I don't know what to do here. Maybe tell him you're sorry?

[Asker]

lol, not enough

[Opinion Owner]

Lol. Can't think of anything else sorry :\

[zombiebabe]

either you had a real connection with him or you love him and he means a lot to you

[Asker]

both

[zombiebabe]

then why don't you tell him that you are in love with him:>?

[Asker]

Because he won't care.

[zombiebabe]

so you should stop suffering for someone who doesn't care babe.. he is not worth it

[Asker]

yea...

[Anonymous]

Eh who friend zoned who here?

[Asker]

I think he felt I did. When really I was trying to get myself together, so I could make him happy. Now he's mad at me for a few other things and he doesn't really want to talk to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Low key I think he might have had a thing for you tbh and obviously he was fulfilling YOUR needs but his weren't being reciprocated and he got fed up with waiting for you to come around so he just gave up and decided to look after his best interests, I'm sorry but like when yr a guy and your friends with a girl who you really care about and are close with even if you didn't have romantic feelings for her in the 1st place that possibility of being "more than friends" always lingers I know it's fucked up but that's how it works :(

[Asker]

probably

[Anonymous]

Sounds like your in love with him