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A girl who was like 17 when i was 15 I used to be friends with. I was always so nice to her, and was always there when she was sick, sad, in a bad situation. Our age difference never really mattered, but what did was our physical difference. I am like 5 4, 110 pounds, athletic. This girl was literally 5" 9' 260 pounds. She would always make fun of me, she called me Brooke because all of our friends agreed that i look like Blue Lagoon Brooke Shields (not that offensive but when she said it it hurt like hell.) Told me i was to fat to wear things, that my chest was too small (being a b cup i was overthrown by her DD's), being a whore, and a prude (a whore and a prude?). I just kinda got over being a door matt for whenever she needed help and advice, I found some good friends and got over her all together.
Wtf!!! She's a terrible friend! I've had something similar happen but when I told her how I felt she got mad at me and didn't talk to me for weeks. Which was a breath of fresh air but did talk to me eventually. If she's like my friend then you should probably just end it now because we ended up getting in numerous fights adding tons of stress to me. I wish I would have ended it long ago. We don't speak anymore.
Bullies need friends too.
But you need to stand up for your self and let her know that you are done with this bullshit she calls friendship.
Be proud that you help people (we need more of you) but you are getting broken by someone that is just plain stupid. its like she hasn't grown up yet.
In the other hand my solution to that problem will be to punch her on her throat when she start talking about you.
Call her out on her behavior in front of others too. Don't throw shots at her likeshe does just stick to what your there for. Tell her you guys aren't friends so she can stop talking to you and about you. Then ignore her. She'll likely apologize then repeat it again. I love ignoring people.
She isn't your friend. To me it is obvious she so sort of insecurity about her race or faults. Nobody's perfect and it seems like she thinks she is, if she has to constantly point out your faults. I had a ex-friend (NOTICE THE EX) like that and I asked her about it. She couldn't give me a straight answer, so I told her we couldn't be friends anymore because I felt like she wasn't acting like a true friend. I would ask her what the problem is? But it's up to you if you want to stay friends with her. I hope all goes well.
Oook, first off this "woman" is no friend of yours. A friend is supposed to give as much love as they are given, if you spend all your time being there for her and all she gives you is grief it's time to drop her. My best friend is mixed and if anyone ever called her a "half breed" I'd probably kill them 😈 that is highly unacceptable and you shouldn't have to put up with such a pig headed jerk. So please for your own good cut her off.
Dear Anon,
The first step I would suggest is taking to her in a civil way, however judging by the person you've described it's best distancing yourself from her. Do you really want to be around such a negative aura? I personally wouldn't. You've done so much for her and it seems like she doesn't value you in the same way. Don't say you dislike her or tell her you don't want to be friends as this will cause anger. Spend less time with her but still try to appear amiable. The last thing you want is for your relationship to end disastrously!
I hope all goes well for you and you discover true friendship.
Nicolex
She is a bitch. I HAD friends like that.
And u never lose friends u only find who your real ones are.
So u can stop being her friend
Or
U can play the game to. Laugh when she says something like that. then just start making fun of her like she does to u. When u find a good time don't do it right after.
Because she's insecure & jealous of you. She feels the need to put on a "show" in front of other people at your expense because she has nothing interesting to say about herself alone. I've been through this a couple of times before so I already know the drill. Drop her ass, because I can already guarantee you that she's not gonna listen to you trying to talk to her.
She's not your friend. Girls that usually do that have some hidden jealousy issues or insecurities about themselves. A person that does anything to make themselves look better at your expense is not someone you need in your life period. Especially not under the disguise of being your friend.
And you call that "a friend"? I dumped everyone that made me look bad in public.
I used to have a cocainoman as a friend and he always felt invincible, he always was trying to grab all the attention. I got pissed off over time, even by telling him it disturbed him.
You know what, you choose your friends, make a wise choice out of each decision!
Well you are her permanent wingman. Trust me and get separated from her for a week. She will understand how many places she will collide and fall without you. She will get your importance. Because if it continues people have a wrong personality of you. And you will have to leave that place or town. Because you cannot change everyone's opinion at once
You're too nice, find new friends who won't put you down because their obviously jealous in a way. It's really themselves that look like a jerk!! Who would want to hang around someone who's so negative! Doesn't matter your race, and if it does to her, then shows how shallow she is..
In your title and text you misspelled friend with cunt.
Looool
Harsh, but so true!
That's REALLY rude. She's a terrible friend to you and doesn't appreciate or respect you, and she sounds insecure. Do not have anything else to do with her and tell her why you don't want to continue being her friend if she asks. Do not let someone else treat you that way. I know you care for her, and it proves that you are a great person to be able to see the good in a person like that. You deserve so much better friends.
Also... You are asking for advice on how best to handle this rude person and obviously don't realize your own worth. I'm so sorry to see that people are choosing to be so freaking rude to you here, too. You don't deserve that. Please try to dismiss people making rude comments. Don't even respond to them. You are better than that and people are assholes on the internet 80% of the time because they are insecure cowards or think they're being funny. Take care of yourself and have some respect for yourself and others will to. Those who still don't aren't worth any of your time or effort whatsoever.
Too*
I get what you mean and thanks for your advice you take care of yourself also
I use to have a friend like that and well I'm not her friend any more and if she's like that with you tell her and if she carries on stop being friends with her. It's not about how long she's been their for you, it's about how she treats you and if I was you I wouldn't put up with it :) hope this helps
A friend? Last time I checked a friend supports me and helps me up. NOT put me down. This is clearly no friend. You need to tell your friend to stop and or ignore her. She is just causing drama and looking for attention. I have no clue why your putting up with it. I mean your complaining about it yet your still associating yourself and not dealing with her. Deal with her and avoid her or tell her to stop. But don't stoop to her level, that wouldn't make it right either. Good Luck
Honestly, that's awful and racist. I don't know how long you have known each other, but I think that the way she belittles you is toxic. I would suggest that you talk to her about the issue and if she doesn't change her behaviour cut her out of your life. You don't need friends who would have negative things to say about something like working in an orphanage.
I say tear up. your friend card and throw it im her face. That is no friend friends stick up for u and make u feel good and don't belittle. she sound like a bad person even though she had a tough life i am pretty sure if a friend or girl did that kind of stuff to me i get rid. of that person from my life fast.
She sounds like someone you should cut out of your life, if at all possible. what possible redeeming quality could she have that makes you want to keep her around? Loyalty is great but don't be socially suicidal.