My friend puts me down in front of other people to make herself look good!!! ? (Page 2)

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This friend of mine, I have always been there for her no matter what; family problems, illness, struggling with uni- you name it. Thing is around other people she will try to belittle me to make herself look better. 

She will call me names or point out my faults when people are around. Some people have noticed this and stuck up for me and she will argue with them about it. Others just laugh with her and I feel really awkward and confused. Why does she do things like this? How should I deal with this situation?

FatherJack · Answer

She's as toxic as her bodyweight in plutonium... she's a bigot too ( I HATE it when " society " & the lawmakers state that ONLY European people are racist... utter bullshit , there are bigots of every shade !! ) Get rid & cut her off !!

jayAUA · Answer

My opinion is a simple one. Some people only understand situations when they are placed in the other person shoes. You could do the same to her and if she don't care then you can always remember the saying: you don't know what you have til it's gone. She doesn't deserve you as a friend if she doesn't respect you as one. Lovingly let her go if she won't change and your life will be filled with joy and friends that DO care about you.

lexq91 · Answer

She's insecure about something. Stand up for yourself or she'll never stop. Talk to her about it if she keeps doing it knowing it brothers you she isn't your friend.

spuitkaas · Answer

I would confront her with it and tell her your feelings when she says things like that. If she won't stop, she doesn't respect your feelings apparently andvahe isn't really your friend then.

LaDouleurExquise · Answer

she's not your friend. Punch that bitch in the ovary. and walk away and never call her again. pff... women...

thisGUYknows · Answer

Deep down she's jealous. Just leave that bitch alone.

helpman · Answer

Get ready  my above sentence will make u jumpoff your seat or at least make u wonder Here it goes SHE IS JEALOUS OF YOU

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

she ain't your friend girl Friends should support each other!

KeanuReaver · Answer

There are two ways this can go.  1. You talk to her about it and try to make her stop doing it. 2. You get some new fuckin friends lol.

Windoak · Answer

She is a narcissistic person, isn´t she? This is a common illness in the "modern" civilisation. I am affraid, you will have to leave not only her but everybody who "rate" her higher than you.

rakshaNSR · Answer

fuck that person off with a stinck you don't need that type of people in you life that have to make you look small to make them self look better.

Anonymous · Answer

She probably has her own weird problems, hence her acting this way. Nevertheless she seems like a jerk. Just ignore her or insult her back, she'll probably calm down and be normal (eventually). If she doesn't maybe u should stop being her friend

asianchic · Answer

She's not your friend. Simple. Dump her and never speak to Her again. Use your good qualities on nice people who actually care about you

rachel_lee78 · Answer

Well I don't think this question should even be asked on this website. It's obvious that you shouldn't surround yourself with those kind of people and you should stand your ground and stand up for yourself. I wouldn't be friends with someone like that.

airflow · Answer

Friend? Are you sure she is your friend? She is something like poison, I just ignore people like that ( :

chrisbigman · Answer

You say she's your friend. Are you sure? I think you're her bitch. Get new friends, and dump this supposed "friend".

Anonymous · Answer

Get out of that 'friendship', she sounds like a complete b*tch

dakraziest · Answer

She doesn't sounds like a friend to me its time you both parted ways

PLLFan21 · Answer

Well.. she was never a true friend then, was she? She should be happy for what you do, & thankful for having a good friend like you helping her in situations. I'd cut off the "friendship" ASAP.

Awesomeperformer0826 · Answer

Then she is definitely not your real friend. I used to have a friend that called me a slave, because i am half. Tell he that you feel what she says to you is offensive, if she understands and is really your friend she will stop.

briannabowman · Answer

here's a line from a fairly well known song that might be able to help: it ain't nun to cut that bitch off 😂😘

rufurrealz · Answer

i would say she just jealous of u, she's a hater... my question to is, why do you hang out with people like her?

Anonymous · Answer

I would distance myself. It sounds like she is a poisonous "friend". I would downgrade her to "acquaintance" and not call her friend. If she does this, she is NOT a friend.

Anonymous · Answer

I had a friend like this... I thought she was there for me but really it was all about her... toxic. I'd move on I'm sure you can do better, you don't need friends like that.

Hafida · Answer

OMG , you should get away from those kind of friends

Error_204 · Answer

So basically you hang around assholes and are surprised they are assholes which makes you an idiot?

Lewis47 · Answer

It sounds like it has come to the point where you have to tell her about it. If you don't want to do that, then you have to resort to the same behavior.

Chaos78 · Answer

She's not your friend. Drop this b! tch like the flea bath she is. You deserve way better!!!

MrMister34 · Answer

Throat punches always solve problems. But seriously, stop hanging around assholes.

dashingabi · Answer

What ever any one say.. Silence is the great weapon with polite words.. So use it n have a great future with your good work.. Salute to you.. :)

Anonymous · Answer

Toxic friend drop her you're better off without her there's no reason to hang out with her fuck her and go find some other friends.

LittleSally · Answer

And she's still your friend? Nice... You have to get some self respect! No one can help you but yourself. And it seems to me you don't care about yourself at all at this point. O. o

GothGoddess · Answer

And you still calling her "friend"? Sorry but she isn't a friend.

LollySelly · Answer

And u r still calling her "best fried". Anyway she's a bitch

HeyJustBeingMe · Answer

My advice; kill her.. or sell her for any price given.. Either way.. she needs to change or find a new friend.

Anonymous · Answer

had one of those friends before, leave HER. now. it's best for you!

NicoleJustine · Answer

You don't need friends like that just find friends that are your true friends and is not jerks

JENNYGIRL243 · Answer

RACIST NO DOUBT ABOUT TEL SOMEONE. Iknow she's ur 'frien'but when stuff like this happens you have to deal with it properly hoe this helps.

lolgirlLisa · Answer

That doesn't sound like she's a friend I recomend you drop her you don't need a person like that in your life

Ihav2fart · Answer

And why is she still your friend?

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing is wrong with you , you are just late in life discovering what n****r is...

lumos · Answer

Why do you even consider that loser your friend?

Gaby12345 · Answer

Confront her about it and tell her how you feel about it

Anonymous · Answer

She is a b! tch! Fuck her hard, and sshe will know it.

Anonymous · Answer

If she is putting you down to make herself look better! Then she's not that good of a friend! Tell her she's been rude.

dylanglov · Answer

Mane fuck that hoe. Cut off game strong 🔪💪

Anonymous · Answer

Leave her! She is not worth it. If a girl did this to me I would split so fast you would have never known. (She cares that's why)

moxygirl11 · Answer

She is not a real friend

pandagirl12334 · Answer

Ditch the bitch, girlfriend!

Serena_Pierce · Answer

That's discusting and people who put others down just to make themselves look better are weak and so are you if you still get along with her. Have some pride

Cómoestás · Answer

Just get a new friend. Fairly simple

JRDasSRD · Answer

then she is not your friend. she is your foe.

hypnicjerk · Answer

She doesn't sound like much of a friend.

Anonymous · Answer

She's not your friend! Friends don't do that

Winterblade200 · Answer

Dump her leave her in the dust thats what I did

DontDropIt · Answer

You need a new friend.

penetrationstation · Answer

She's not ure friend dear

Attila · Answer

you have terrible friends

Icarus45 · Answer

That's not what most people would a friend

igetbi · Answer

She's not a friend. Why would you think she is?

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