She shut me out of her life becausr she cannot stand it if i get a boyfriend, a new house, a new career, a new look she doesn't want to hear anything about it so she literally blockes me out of her life out of satisfaction, its hurts me till this day because it makes me realize that i dont have a true sister, why is she so jealous of me? I used to feel so bad about myself while she was ignoring me or trying to one up me in every way, ever since she got in contact with my brother she started to act like this towards me... This is me
My relatives always treated me poorly. Usually I would just pretend not to have relatives. A few times I tried to be nice and contact them but it would always turn into them being cold/uncaring so now I just act like they are all strangers. Maybe two aunts, I can say are okay ish. With my sis we don't talk much.
There is no law that says you have to be best friends with your blood relative. People who come from good families cannot comprehend this and will try to act like everything is your fault or you need to jump through hoops to kiss asses and fix things.
Haters gon' hate, whether they're blood related or not. You can always try including her more in your life so that she doesn't feel like they're more important than she is. Otherwise just expect bad attitude every time you get something new/good happen and then it won't be a shock.
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I've tried it ALL, she keeps seeing me as a competitor
Is she really "jealous" of you or does she plain just hate you? Have you ever done anything to hurt her? I'd say have a talk with it about her. Or ask your mom dad or other sibling to ask her why she hates you.
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I Tried talking 10.000 times, always supported her but she keeps hating and she hasn't spoken to me in 6 months, i given up on her hope she won't regret it in the future
You still have a true sister but she just lives underneath all that jealousy. I don't have siblings so I don't have similar experience, but what I've noticed is that siblings usually have this competitive aspect between them, especially if they are the same sex. Some just take it more seriously like your sister does.
But I don't think this is something permanent and she will eventually grow out of it, hopefully. But try not to see her as jealous sister, but a sister that just happens to be in this state of jealousy right now. What I mean is don't judge her and hate her for that, but try to understand her.
you are very pretty. in a society that sometimes teaches girls to value looks it might not have been easy for her growing up being compared with you. unfortunately you can't make people love you. family included. I don't think anyone in my immediate family loves me. But I just happen to be surrounded by an awesome group of people who love me despite no blood relations. And it's a pretty good feeling
you should sit her down and black the reason why these things are happening to me is because of this share with her how to achieve the goals that she meant to achieve if she cannot follow your direction then her jealousy is on her own and she's going to have to deal with it either way don't let it affect your life
If you try to talk to her and nothing worms there's not anything you can really do but wait and try later in time when's she's more secure in her life.
I don't know why she would be jealous... I have the same issue with my brother and he has turned my family against me...
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I'm sorry about u r sis! there is no worries about the jealous issues ! any girl will become jealous of u becoz of u r beauty! I think u r sis needs a boy friend who can fulfill the jealous of her! its an application letter! I can be her bf!
I have a jealous brother, whatever the true cause of his jealousy is, I still think of him as a victim more than an asshole, it's probably very hard being the lesser one
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