How do you deal with drama within your circle of friend's?

[coolbreeze]

[JiminsHoe]

Oh God, this is what makes me feel like I'm not a teen girl like the rest of my friends. Drama, drama, notorious drama. As if we need something to meddle on, to fight about, or to gossip about on a daily basis. I've dealt with it, having girls exclude you, having them talk behind your back, coincidentally 'forget to invite you', maybe they have something to say about who you hung out with or maybe they want to mock your hobbies and you as a person.
Its honestly bullshit, and if I see drama happening between two friends of mine, I will try to resolve it, it isn't my issue, but as a friend and a bystander, its the right thing to ease tensions as they are my friends after all, but if the drama is in any way directed at me, I give it time, let it settle, probably will be sitting in the compute lab or library for lunch to get alone time because drama isn't something I ever look forward to.
I don't know why people need to be mean or pull someone down or become two-faced or a backstabbing basic bitch. Oh well.

[coolbreeze]

Wow you dealt with a lot. Your a very strong. You make good points.

[snowangle]

Luckily, my friends are all pretty mature and uncomplicated, so we don't attract hardly any drama. The few times someone has been mad at each other, we just communicate and understand each other's point of view and then we can move on. We all know each other pretty well and respect each other, so every little problem has pretty much blown over. Part of having close friends is acknowledging each other's human flaws.

[The-Weeknd-0]

Drama, if it's over s gitl. Good luck with that.

I lost a lot of close friends over girls. Kinda stupid, never my fault. I don't hold grudges.

Man, if there's one thing I know. Drama is going to happen no matter what. In an ideal world we all get away with whatever we want. But life never works like that. People fight. You find ways to cope. You adapt.

Just let it happen. Whatever happens, let it be. No need to worry about external factors. We all have enough s*** to deal with in our own minds anf lives. Just let things happen. Who cares, as long as you're healty. That's the main thing.

Good luck.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I just learn to ignore the drama cause if i feed into it
than it makes me feel worst.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thank you for Most Helpful Guy :)

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome.

[Rainie_]

Drama with my friends is very rare. Only happens when we're drunk and make bad decisions but all is forgiven within a few hours or minutes. We've known each other for 8 years and even in that amount of time I can't even remember what drama we've had. And when we've tried to ignore/blank one another we all end up laughing and talking again because it's so silly.

[coolbreeze]

That is cool you and your friend's get along well.

[Pink2000]

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I cut them off

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[Anonymous]

We only do the kind of drama that happens in a costume on stage. Otherwise we are all wildly, drunkenly, madly in love with each other, stars in our eyes, and hearts open - so we have very little drama among us.

Plus, I never repeat gossip, so you have to listen really carefully the first time.

[cocaths]

I stay out of it. No point in losing sleep over things that just resolve on their own eventually

[coolbreeze]

Yeah that is very true.

[btbc92]

I settle it with them by getting those who have the problem to speak to each other. And figure out why they have that problem. I don't care if they don't like it. Somebody has to be the adult. I thank god I don't have friends like that.

[Quintessence]

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That about sums it up.

[Kimpossible]

It’s mostly now an unheard of thing amongst my small circle of friends, we’re adult enough to respect each other and let things go before they escalate.

[I_AmTheDrummer]

Usually, depending on the severity of conflict I would either find out the details and calmly/carefully make sure the wrongdoers know what they did and apologose. It sounds harsh but it works... If it is a petty argument I usually try and find a compromise.

[nobodysee]

Depends the drama. Is it your friends are against eachother or they are having drama with someone else. To be honest just stay out of it. Be the happy person in the group.

[assumer_speculator]

Ignore it. if it's too much to take in react on it and tell them on their faces to get over it. Your peace of mind is more important.

[Kajiac]

I try to stay out of it bc I hate being in the middle or even knowing too much about it. I feel like it's a huge burden to carry and I just want peace between my friends

[Orpheid]

Would rather sit by and watch.

[dionnexxx]

I normally ignore it.. Giving it attention and giving opinions makes it a bigger unnecessary situation..

[Roxanne_RMBR]

I avoid them all until it's over or I get a new circle of friends

[fpmsn]

Drama is for the stage! I try to be far away as much as I can!

[BlackieJ]

I try to help and not make it worse or try and ignore it.

[Yuukikamlot]

Let’s see... first you find out all the details, then tell them both they are being stupid

[Anonymous]

I'm always end up being the diplomat, people always end up coming to me when they have real problems.

[reixun]

I don’t have drama in my close friend group, the drama is external

[Anonymous]

I stay out of it. It's their drama, they can sort it out themselves because I would get the blame if I tried to help.

[lilzichik1]

I have lots of drama in my friend circle I just leave or listen to it and try not to go in it.

[Anonymous]

Guys drama or girls drama?
I dont think guys like drama...
From my experience with girls drama, then you should join the drama and enjoy.

[Anonymous]

There is rarely drama in my circle of friends. I usually try to stay away from dramatic people.

[Iheartcharizard]

with drama within my close friends, i just don't invite them both to the same gathering/event

[Anonymous]

My circle of friends consist on guys so there isn’t drama...

I’m one of the guys that can’t be friends with women.

[Opinion Owner]

Of* guys

[BrittBratt2416]

Simple, by not having any friends! *slaps knee*

[JoeDoyle]

Don’t just stay out of it

[lilmissumshine]

Ditch them all

[Anonymous]

I talk to them.