Me F22 recently started gaming with a few people online. Two of the guys, M20 and M27, are currently in a very childish fight.
It started when M27 started talking shit about M20. After he had done it multiple times, I told him to stop. He got really pissed off and removed me as a friend. I was really upset about this, but M20 told me the other guy was the issue here.
We later found out a third person who is friends with M27 has been sending unwanted messages to two of the girls in our group. M20 gets extremely pissed off and really wants to somehow speak with the guy about what a disgusting guy he is.
One week later, M27 and pervy guy join me out of nowhere in the game. M20 join quickly as well to back me up. A fight breaks out where everyone but me is just calling each other names. M27 says that if I'm a good girl and stop being friends with such a trash person as M20. He'll welcome me back as a friend. I just tell him that I prefer being friends with M20 because he hasn't really done anything to me.
Almost a month passes and M20 who hade been given login to M27's second account (before the fight). Gets the account permanently banned. I, of course, tell him this was wrong, but I won't exactly stop being friends with him because of this. I just don't agree with what he did. This starts up the drama again, and M27 goes after me immediately, being upset about me being friends with such a lowlife.
But the thing is... I'm not the only one in our group who's still friends with M20. And that's been stated multiple times. At this point, everyone on M20's side is making jokes about M27 having an obsessive crush on me and stuff. I'm just so confused in all this. Neither seem to want to stop. They just keep triggering each other over and over again. It's extremely tiring. All I wanted was for everyone to just get along. But instead, they're all being so childish...
What would you do in this situation? I don't want to stop being friends. I don't have many friends irl.
It started when M27 started talking shit about M20. After he had done it multiple times, I told him to stop. He got really pissed off and removed me as a friend. I was really upset about this, but M20 told me the other guy was the issue here.
We later found out a third person who is friends with M27 has been sending unwanted messages to two of the girls in our group. M20 gets extremely pissed off and really wants to somehow speak with the guy about what a disgusting guy he is.
One week later, M27 and pervy guy join me out of nowhere in the game. M20 join quickly as well to back me up. A fight breaks out where everyone but me is just calling each other names. M27 says that if I'm a good girl and stop being friends with such a trash person as M20. He'll welcome me back as a friend. I just tell him that I prefer being friends with M20 because he hasn't really done anything to me.
Almost a month passes and M20 who hade been given login to M27's second account (before the fight). Gets the account permanently banned. I, of course, tell him this was wrong, but I won't exactly stop being friends with him because of this. I just don't agree with what he did. This starts up the drama again, and M27 goes after me immediately, being upset about me being friends with such a lowlife.
But the thing is... I'm not the only one in our group who's still friends with M20. And that's been stated multiple times. At this point, everyone on M20's side is making jokes about M27 having an obsessive crush on me and stuff. I'm just so confused in all this. Neither seem to want to stop. They just keep triggering each other over and over again. It's extremely tiring. All I wanted was for everyone to just get along. But instead, they're all being so childish...
What would you do in this situation? I don't want to stop being friends. I don't have many friends irl.
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It can be difficult to navigate drama between friends, especially when it involves multiple people and conflicting perspectives. Here are a few things you can do to handle the situation:
1. Stay neutral: It's important to try to stay neutral and not take sides in the conflict. You can acknowledge your friends' feelings and perspectives while also maintaining your own boundaries and values.
2. Communicate openly: It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with both M20 and M27 about how their behavior is impacting you and the group. Try to listen actively and empathetically to their concerns and to express your own feelings and perspective in a respectful and constructive way.
3. Set boundaries: If the drama is negatively impacting your well-being or causing you to feel uncomfortable, it may be helpful to set boundaries and limit your interactions with the individuals involved. You can prioritize your own well-being and choose a path that aligns with your personal values and goals.
4. Seek support: Reach out to other friends or family members for support and encouragement. Sometimes, talking to someone else can help to alleviate feelings of stress and provide a fresh perspective on the situation.
Remember, friendships can be complex and challenging, but it's important to prioritize open communication, mutual respect, and understanding in all of your relationships.
Hmmm well you see the thing is the only way that drama ends is if they stop communicating and playing with eachother. If you think it'll end with them talking and saying sorry and y'all being fwiends again☺️, it won't happen. They're both acting like little ass kids so I think you're just at the very least going to have to play with them separately. But with that being said if you do that you will have to hear both sides constantly complaining to you about the other. I'm not sure if there's much you can do since the problem doesn't really have anything to do with you, they just complain about it to you🤔