The question is of what you expect from that friend? Because, friendship has specific type of interest, which is controlled by time and situation. If you feel, that person is not adding value to you, you might try from yourself to take actions until you will not get feedback. However, if there is no chemistry, there is time to part away. Some friends show their true intention by time and situation, which it leads to conflict of interest, so the best way is take time out or leave it in the way how it suppose to be...
I know it's time to break-up with a friend when I start to dread seeing them, when they become toxic, things their doing affect my life... Before I do break-up the friendship I pray on it and figure out if they are the Reason Friend and what that was or a Season Friend and we fulfilled that time!!!
For me there was no question my friends were potheads and partiers and i didn't want to cut them out until i met my husband who is a military guy and he showed me i dont need to party all the time to have fun and i ended up distancing myself and moving on to bigger and better things
She stopped working out with me, posted nothing but eating fast food and watching movies with her dude. She gained 80lb in less than a year. Then she started lying to me and her fiancé. She acted like step children were a chore. I just couldn’t respect her anymore
They get into relationships and drop off the face of the earth. When you're with them but they ignore you for their new boo. This goes for guys and girls.
I never cut anyone out of my life unless they give me a strong reason to, that is, either they're being toxic or lose their worth of having my attention they once had... There's a simple check to see if someone adds worth to your life or not, imagine yourself in a terrible terrible situation & think of all those names (of your so called friends) & try to figure out what are they gonna do, those who seem to be doing nothing or very less about it are likely to be of no worth.
Still, I'd suggest that only cut those people out who are harmful to you, there's no point in cutting out these useless "friends" who apparently don't add enough value to your life.
If there was no contribution from them that played a role in your life enough to keep em around everyday. I cut off a lot of friends just not completely
When you feel better when they are not there than when they are, when they make excuses about spending time with you, and when you are never their priority, thats the time to drop them. Ignore them for a while. If you dont here from them, they doesn't deserve it
We just grew apart and no longer had anything in common to eventually where we both stop staying in touch. It was more like phasing out then cutting them out
Say if you guys were in a group hanging around if you feel out of placed snd the energy is differen than thats a sign but if you seem them happier without you just drop it no point having fake friends with fake hearts
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