It happens in every generation: some start getting married, so others think they need to, as well. SOCIAL PRESSURE!! You must, because EVERYONE is doing it, right? NO!!
A single, or few, don't, maybe the 'smart ones'
Five years later those 'Happily Married' couples are fighting, arguing, and cheating. After ten years, if they make it that long, divorce, then a few years later, their kids in Therapy because of all the sht they saw, heard and watched their parents do to each other!
Some kids get drugged, others, are just messed up, and get jobs their parents hate, or date people that they know will just piss their parents off.
Maybe just wait, and find the right guy, the right person, and develop a solid relationship, rather than just jump on the 'Merry-Go-Round of Destroying Lives!'
Been one of those kids, and know what I am talking about. Now, it is even worse for kids today!
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Not really.. just don't get pregnant.. I mean find a guy you wanna make babies with of course but be weary. Guys blast there loads cuz they got no control. Or something haha just watch out..
No.
I just turned 25, and I see lots of my friends getting married, engaged, having children, etc. Which is nice if they want to do so with their lives, that's great.
I personally am career oriented. I plan to finish uni, and get my diploma, then continue into a long term career, while still attending school on the side. I have other plans besides marriage, and I personally cannot have children (I never wanted any to begin with) however medically it's not possible for me. So, I plan to do some travelling in the near future, to save up and visit family in different countries, to explore my own country too. :)
I think comparing yourself and your life with someone elses is the WORST thing you can do.
You do your own thing, live your own life and do what you want to do. It's all yours to enjoy :)
It freaked me out when it was happening around me at your age, and I'm now experiencing the next wave of weddings, and it does freak me out a lot... its like there is suddenly a whole new generational chapter... personally I dont want children or marriage, and it's difficult for some to accept that when everyone is doing it.. so that's also why it freaks me out, on a personal level, I just can't imagine myself doing any of those things.
It will pass. Had that happen lots of years ago. And most are divorced (multiple times) and their kids are causing all kinds of problems in their lives. And yet, here I have been - living a happy drama free life all this time. I feel like the winner. :)
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Yeah a lot of people at my work are getting engaged or married or whatever. It's summer time so it's not really surprising.
From the way things sound, your time too may come soon !!!
Good Luck !!!it's stranger when people start dying all at once. wait til that starts happening.
don't worry about it, your time will come when you're ready for it
I've had the same feeling when I came back home for summer holidays after the first year of unversity. Bunch of girls who I went to elementary school with were pregnant and I was just like wtf when did that happen.
You’re just getting more Awesome! Take Barney’s advice! There needs to be a bit more of that awesome and the magic will happen...
Everyone around me is either in a relationship, engaged, or married and I am always rejected.
Yes it does freak me out when i hear about some of the stuff people post on Facebook about their decease babies and yet she's pregnant again with her 11 th baby yes a woman with some major issues. LOL
Im old. everyone got engaged, divorced, etc and Im still here :( alone
Not really.
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