My girlfriend wants to be carried like a baby in public. She thinks it's hot. Do people think we are freaks?

[Anonymous]

I'm very tall and athletic (basically an alpha male) and she's very petite and feminine. She says it turns her on when I carry her in my arms, but I feel retarded doing this. I feel like I'm carrying my daughter. She says it turns her on/she feels protected/feels loved and wants to show everyone that she belongs to me. That's crazy if you ask me. People keep staring at us, but no one would ever insult us (since I'm pretty intimidating). I feel bad about this. Are we freaks?

[viva_glow]

Depends how much you do it and where.

Me, I don't tend to judge that stuff. And anytime I see a couple doing cutesy bonding stuff like that, I think it's adorable. Overdone though can be weird. I think you can be the judge about how normal your girlfriend is making the whole thing.

Maybe you could fill her desire for this by not really doing it in public, but make more of a note to do it when you two are alone. That way you can make her happy without the awkwardness of it all in front of a bunch of strangers. I'm sure she'll be satisfied.

[inevitably_yours]

Tell her that it's awkward to carry her around like that in public. Maybe you could just carry her around like that when you're not out in public. Honestly, I think that there might be something a little bit wrong if she wants you to show everyone that she belongs to you.

[Belleza]

hahaha...lmao...wow OK pretty odd - well it kinda would be hard to not look at you but um interesting - even if you are a big intimidating guy - I will still look at you and start laughing - yes I would have the guts to do it!

[DonMichelle]

In public as in out shopping, in McDonalds etc... It's absolutely bizzare mate, people will think you've escaped from an asylum if it continues. I like to carry girls up the stairs to my room ;) (because I kno it gets them in the mood) but if I was asked to carry girls around all the time and in public then I'd simply point to her legs and say ''They're called legs''...

[DaveMicharl69]

No, I think it's cute & sweet, & if I saw & looked, I'd be thinking, aww, they must be SOOOO in love! The people I know feel the same way...

[DonMichelle]

SERIOUSLEY?

[DaveMicharl69]

Well, I guess I can see why it would be thought of as strange, but I honestly never thought of it that way til I read the other answers. I just know that I wouldn't judge him for it...

[slipslender]

lmfao. I LOVE this question. tell her that wanting to be carried like a baby is a sign of major mental distress. she needs help. if anything, can she settle for being cradled at home?

good luck.

[Gregs]

I do that sometimes, but wtf? all the time? no way, that's pathological

[Anonymous]

defo a troll, stating that you're an alpha male and that you're intimidating lmao... why would an intimidating alpha male care what anyone thinks of him in public, let alone express his concerns on the internet... just lol

[Anonymous]

It's pretty odd. It would probably be hard not to look at you guys like you're strange or obnoxious.

[bhall20]

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