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Well, man are looking for woman naturally. When the woman's character etc. Is nice you want to have her. Guess it's something like that. It always needs time after this to keep a friendship up.
it depends on the guy and what they want. I have plently of female friends that are married or in a committed relationship. I have never viewed them as anything more then friends
Guys can't be real "Friends" with women unless there is zero attraction.
Not for me... I would rather be friends than not, after a break up...
Well if a woman is attractive, 99 out of 100 friends would like to sleep with her..
So yeah it's nearly impossible
Why do u have a hard time making girlfriends, I’m just curious
Everyone is trying to couple up. And the ones that leave after they find out you're getting married only wanted to date you, not be friends.
Cause most of the time girls don't be actual friends. Actual friendship is a two way street. Girls usually take advantages of friendzoned guys and when they çatch feeling they complain.
Because men and women values many different things.
Yeah--they clearly want to bang you. I take it you don't find them attractive?
I always thought men can’t be friends with women because they would always fall in love with them
I'm shy to talk to girl hahaha and I don't really talk to girls if it's not important
They only befriend people they r attracted too and that's their first mistake. Girls hangout with anyone
Because they want to fuck them. Women are I incredibly abrasive to the male agenda once sex is removed.
How often do you talk about your wedding?
I don't even bring it up. I know it would annoy them.
there's just not strong enough common interest for that.
Same reason why it is so hard for women to stay friends with men.
Cause girls idea of a friendship is nowhere near guys idea of friendship
Why would a guy just want to be friends? What do we have to gain from that?
The answer is simple. We are designed that way
Guys and girls can’t be friends men understand this women don’t
Grow up. No guy wants to be friends with a married woman.
Friendship is a two-way street. Women are incapable of reciprocating.
They might have had a crush on you
I could have told you that in eighth grade.
The older one gets the easier it is.
I have seen you before I think 🤔
Yes you have. I hope you've been well. It's been maybe 8 years? 5?
Oh so it was you! Yea 8 years perhaps since first I had my account in 2011. Things are good with me. Hope you are well.
I guess pretty well. I work too much but I'm not terribly unhappy. Feel free to be my first follower if you like.
This much is true.
Wonder why you can't make female friends.
Oh trust me I would love to have a group of female friends where we can hang out together, watch movie and go for shopping or sightseeing. Unfortunately, the women around me are mostly married and have no time to hang out with, or love gossiping which I am not fond of. Some just like going to the bars and get drunk and all. I don't judge what they do but their lifestyle is just not for me.
You are hanging around the wrong women then. For every you, there are thousands just like you. I get not making friends with every woman, because you have differing interest, but there is no way that you can't make ANY female friends for that reason.
I said "difficulty"to make friends with them 🙄 I didn't say I don't have ANY. I have a few good female friends.
So why are males your savior if you have female friends? It's quite obvious that these guys dont want to just be friends... and you can't keep male friendships how are guys your savior? Not being rude, but it seems like you just like having a lot of people around you. If you have genuine friends you dont need to seek out more.
Not ALL your guy friends are like that 😊
It's not I only have 2 friends and both are female
You are probably gay.
Pansexual dating a girl right now
Panda sexual, sorry that is Gay.
Of course it is on some level thanks for letting me know what I already know
Sound like it's more to it then you say.
I have literally never had that problem.
A woman who has a problem making girl friends is a serous red flag to men.
Eh, they were okay with that till they found out I am taken. Me having problem making female friends has nothing to do with it.
There are some real hetero Tom boys out there that relate better to guys than girls. Nothing wrong with that. But those girls usually don’t have enough developed feminine wiles to get enough guys seriously interested in them.
But then there are those femme fatale bitches who have several if not dozens of male orbiters. They are professional friendzoners. They knows how to toy with them to keep them in reach (when need them) but never lets them get in their pants. THOSE women are the worst. They are also usually very good attractive and highly extroverted. They know to throw men a few bones but pull back when the guy gets hungry. I HATE those types of women. They usually become gold diggers.
@backinblack22 Your second paragraph describes women who just wanna use their guy friends as a "part time bf" when they need them. I don't agree nor have I done anything like that. With my guy friends, I pay for my meals when we hang out, movie ticket and I take uber (or drive) so that they don't have to spend on their gas to fetch me. If that is the case that you have just mentioned, then her male friends have their right to leave her all alone. Oh giving mixed signal is also a no no.
@backinblack22 Yes, The femme fatale women you describe is the ultra "red flag" female. All bad news.
I’ve fallen victim a few times by these professional freeloader/friendzoner women. Again it only works for them if they are very attractive. A part of a man’s brain shuts down and they know how to exploit it. Ironically they usually end up falling in love with the guy who is the least interested in them. The challenge intrigues them.
Hindsight is 20/20 but what I would give to have be able to go back and be armed with foreknowledge of what they are all about.
@backinblack22 I totally agree. These women deserve the "alpha pump-and-dump" guys who bang them.
and those are the guys who get the goods 90% of the time. The other 10% are usually very rich and/or have some sort of special advantage. She will spread her legs and fake it for him a few times, but quickly leave and is more likely to cheat.
These women completely disgust me. Their bullshit rarely gets publicized either (reality shows, entertainment, etc.) but pump and dump guys get vilified. But they don't give a shit and that's part of their whole modus operandi.
The good news is these type of women quickly lose their power when they age. However they are the type to take a rich guy to the cleaners in a divorce. They rarely have financial success on their own without being a parasite to someone else.
This is not all women of course, but unacceptable percentage of them pull this crap.
@desidoll I'm glad you try to pay your fair share when you are out with your guy friends. That's better than most women.
If they are fine with the arrangement than so be it. But tbh you are still getting more benefit out of that than they are. They are there to protect you, you get can get strong male advice/logic, they will do heavy lifting for you and they also have to suffer some embarrassment if someone the guy if you two are together. A single guy who has to admit that his attractive single female friend is "just a friend" almost always feels ashamed if he's attracted to her. However I've had friend-zoned women LIE to other people we are dating. They get more wiggle room than guys do.
But these guys are going along with it. So their choice. I wouldn't tolerate it though, especially if she wants to call me and hang out a lot w/ no physical interest. Different story if she was just a casual friend in a big group setting. But solo one on one "friendships" for guys with girls is emasculating.
If you are "taken" why are you trying to make male friends? Looking to back fill your friend zone bench? Looking to use these guys as a weapon to keep your fiancee jealous?
I want to stay friends with you
You’re totally right
Because it simply does not work
Cuz eventually we gone wanna fuck
Because those guys don't feel like being used.
That takes truly loving someone
Homosexuality exists, find a homosexual friend.
When you find out let us know
You do know we are at war to each other right?
Let me know if you found an answer.