If you ask me I think people just don't have the conference to go up to someone chat for 5 min and ask if they want to go out to a movie or something. It's that simple but no one there days has the conference to do it.
Nothing. Growing up I got into odd arguments with my mum and Dad, I specifically remember the occasion I made my mum cry. At the time I was so angry at them for not letting me do what I want etc, but I know now it was for my own good
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Hitting my children. My mother was merciless with beatings, she'd beat me and my brother senseless. What made it worse and makes me feel ashamed is that when she beat me, I'd take it out on my brother and beat him in turn. He basically took double beatings. Now we are doing therapy and repairing our relationship, but it's hard. He winces as soon as I make a sudden movement. I feel like shit.
Being emotionally unavailable, and often verbally abusive, and a few times, physically abusive. I don't expect to have kids, but I would never do any of those things, to them!
I wouldn’t be unclear of what I expect of them. It’s really damaging to not know what you’re doing wrong and not being told even when you ask directly. I would never treat my child like they did something wrong and not tell them clearly what it was they did.
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My dad had sex with my mom in front of me. It was weird.
@Grkgod12 I was 15. It was disgusting. Weird thing was that I was soaking wet. My dad went on to do some creepy stuff with some of my friends that he's doing time for.
I would tell them I love them, often. And I would talk to them about everything. Also, I wouldn't put so much pressure regarding studies and good grades.
I would listen to her, make her feel loved and give her freedom. I would want to be her bestfriend, no secrets and lies. Just being honest and understanding one another.
My disdain for everyone comes from them (I think). I always got what I wanted and they were the perfect parents (for the most parts). But they are simple go happy go home people.
Trying to decide what career path they should take. I happened to be the obedient type, and that is the biggest mistake of my life. I am not happy today, because I listened to them too much.
My parents were wonderful and probably the best two people I have ever known. I'm sterile, but if were ever in parental authority over a child I would do what they did, to the best of my abilities.
I can't think of a single thing, but I can think of several things I should have done better with or for my kids. (Don't ask, I won't go into details.)
Extremely abuse included things they didn't even do at Guantanamo bay Left us to be molested by religious officials Leave us dilbertly in the middle of winter in Canada and that's just the tip of the iceberg
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If you ask me I think people just don't have the conference to go up to someone chat for 5 min and ask if they want to go out to a movie or something. It's that simple but no one there days has the conference to do it.
Nothing. Growing up I got into odd arguments with my mum and Dad, I specifically remember the occasion I made my mum cry. At the time I was so angry at them for not letting me do what I want etc, but I know now it was for my own good
Hitting my children.
My mother was merciless with beatings, she'd beat me and my brother senseless.
What made it worse and makes me feel ashamed is that when she beat me, I'd take it out on my brother and beat him in turn. He basically took double beatings.
Now we are doing therapy and repairing our relationship, but it's hard. He winces as soon as I make a sudden movement.
I feel like shit.
That's the worst. I'd take my anger out on my brother too and I'd do anything to take it back.
Being emotionally unavailable, and often verbally abusive, and a few times, physically abusive.
I don't expect to have kids, but I would never do any of those things, to them!
I wouldn’t be unclear of what I expect of them. It’s really damaging to not know what you’re doing wrong and not being told even when you ask directly. I would never treat my child like they did something wrong and not tell them clearly what it was they did.
My dad had sex with my mom in front of me. It was weird.
That must have been so awkward!
How did it happen ?
@Grkgod12 in the next bed in a motel room. He saw that I saw and he just kept going until he finished while looking me in the eye
Wow ! How did you react?
How old were you at the time?
@Grkgod12 I was 15. It was disgusting. Weird thing was that I was soaking wet.
My dad went on to do some creepy stuff with some of my friends that he's doing time for.
It does sound very strange, and it must have been embarrassing for you !
Were they under a blanket? Or?
You must have been surprised when you were wet !
@Grkgod12 no they weren't
Was it missionary? Doggie?
Did mom know that you were watching?
What were you thinking, feeling when it happened and after?
And what happened to your dad later on?
@Grkgod12 It’s weird how many questions you’re asking about it
@Grkgod12 You're a creeper my dude, too bad she didn't realize before you got your boner.
I have no complain against my parents, they are really the best parents.
Yelling at them in anger
Spanking them with a belt
Apply double standards
Meddle in their relationships
Have violence in my marriage
I would tell them I love them, often. And I would talk to them about everything. Also, I wouldn't put so much pressure regarding studies and good grades.
I would listen to her, make her feel loved and give her freedom. I would want to be her bestfriend, no secrets and lies. Just being honest and understanding one another.
Not call them derogatory names or hit them. I also want them to have peaceful home with parents who love and respect each other.
My disdain for everyone comes from them (I think). I always got what I wanted and they were the perfect parents (for the most parts). But they are simple go happy go home people.
Trying to decide what career path they should take.
I happened to be the obedient type, and that is the biggest mistake of my life. I am not happy today, because I listened to them too much.
One thing mt parents did and that I won't do with mine: Having one😂
Tell them that they're fat and ugly and no matter what they say it's not relevant.
My parents were wonderful and probably the best two people I have ever known. I'm sterile, but if were ever in parental authority over a child I would do what they did, to the best of my abilities.
I started to think what should I do with my kids that my parents did to me? What would I like to copy from them?
NOTHING, LITERALLY NOTHING
I can't think of a single thing, but I can think of several things I should have done better with or for my kids. (Don't ask, I won't go into details.)
Extremely abuse included things they didn't even do at Guantanamo bay
Left us to be molested by religious officials
Leave us dilbertly in the middle of winter in Canada and that's just the tip of the iceberg
abuse them... in any way shape or form...
or try to destroy their lives or future...