I always buy our dinners, buy us a drink or ice cream when our in town or I’ll get her a hair tie if she doesn’t have one. I always give her dinner when she comes to my work and so on.
For Christmas we both wrote out lists of things we want and don’t want. The list wasn’t crazy long nor was the things in it expensive. I got her everything except one thing in her list and she only got me one thing on my list.
I felt like crying because no one ever actually puts thought into my gifts and it’s always a last minute thing my fiends rush to get.
Another friend bought me a lama mug and Starbucks coffee- I DONT LIKE lama’s and I hate Starbucks coffee.
I want to message my friends and tell them that I don’t feel they put in effort and tell them how I feel. How I’m the one that puts in the effort snd they just take what I give but never think of doing something nice and thoughtful for me. I don’t want to use them but it’s hurtful when you do these nice things for your friends but they either forget your birthday or gifts or they just buy your crap...
what do I do
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